by GirlieBlue

Gender: Female
Age: 24
Race/ethnicity: African American
Current location: Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Incredible
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

One Night In Barcelona

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 weeks ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Passionate One Night Stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a tall, blond Estonian with pretty blue eyes, blond hair and chiseled abs. He had a wide, charming grin and a deep voice.
I caught his eye while I was dancing with my friend at a nightclub in Barcelona.
I had never met him before, and I was not necessarily seeking a hookup that night. I was on vacation, and I have another guy coming to visit me in Europe — I figured I’d wait for him and not get involved with anyone.
So I kind of ignored the new guy for a long time and just danced with my friend.
After a few hours, the handsome blond made his way over to me to dance. He turned out to be an incredible dancer — probably among the best I’ve ever met. I completely abandoned my friend, and ended up spending the night dancing with this very cute guy.
His eyes were sweet and a little bit sensitive. He didn’t want to let me go for the whole night. I felt so turned on by his body and the way he moved, I knew this was one of those times where I needed to throw out my “no sex the first night” rules and go home with him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After about 2 hours of dancing, he finally leaned in and kissed me. His lips were soft and his grip was strong. I loved how strong his shoulders were. Even though we’d only spent a few hours dancing, I could tell that he was a nice, sensitive guy. We danced and kissed until the club shut down. 
He offered to walk me home, and I asked him if he wanted to spend the night together at his place. 
His eyes lit up, and he said, “of course!” We walked back to his apartment, which happened to be his friend’s apartment in El Raval of Barcelona.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We grabbed some rum and cola from the kitchen, as well as a few chairs, and we made our way upstairs to the roof. 
We chatted for a nearly half an hour on the roof, and I just loved his sweet grin and the way he looked at me. He wanted me, which turned me on. In the distance, there were dark thunder clouds, and we could smell earth.
I sat in his lap and we started to kiss. His lips were soft and he touched me all over my body — my stomach, my neck, my breasts. His body was so sexy, he had the figure of an athlete and runner. 
I slipped between his legs and went down on him. 
I think that set him off, because he grabbed me, ripped off my panties, and pushed himself inside of me. He was going so fast and so hard, I felt overwhelmed, and screamed, “wait, wait, I don’t know you!” 
He stopped, and he took me into his arms, and whispered, “the fact that you said that makes me like you even more. I typically don’t do this. We don’t have to do it.” 
I felt relieved and I sat in his lap and snuggled with him.
Within a few minutes, it began to pour rain. We looked at each other and had the same thought: here we are in Barcelona, on a roof, it’s raining, you’re unbelievably sexy. This is happening.
We took off our clothes and set them aside someplace dry. He leaned me over the railing and fucked me doggy style. His body was so sexy, he knew exactly how to hold me, it was incredible. He fucked me standing up, sitting in the chair. We were drenched by the rain, but that just made it hotter. The sex was so hot because this stranger wanted me so, so badly. He later said that he had never been with a woman who loved sex in the way that I do, and it turned him on. 
It started to get a bit too cold in the rain, so we went downstairs to his little room and — oh my gosh, I think we both blew each other’s minds. We did it for hours, stopping for a few minutes to snuggle and sleep, and then he’d wake up and want to continue.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I think I might have finally had an orgasm. He did not. He probably could have kept going. But after about two hours, I was ready to sleep.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Yeah, that was really bad. We took no precautions. I wish we had because we didn’t know each other. I typically don’t do that, but it was so spontanous, and in a very stupid way, I wanted to be close to him. 
A few weeks later, my cycle was a few days late and one can imagine the panic. Luckily, it did come. I finally addressed with him over Facebook, and finally had the conversation about sexual health.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He was so sexy. I’ve rarely met men in their late twenties who have bodies that are so effortlessly athletic. He also has an incredibly sweet face and an easy smile. Because of our chemistry, I trusted him. 
My instincts were right, we still talk every day, and we’ve become quite close. 
Also, when was I ever going to find myself on a rooftop in Barcelona with a handsome man during a thunderstorm?

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes. We were both wasted from drinking at the club. I’d say we did about 3 shots, in addition to about 5 – 6 drinks each.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we hooked up, he walked me home. We agreed to shower, change, and meet up again at my place in an hour. I fell asleep and woke up about an hour and a half later, and was afraid that he would flake or would think that I’d flake. So, I ran downstairs, and there he was eating breakfast, waiting for me.
We spent the rest of our time together in Barcelona. It was wonderful being able to share the city with someone romantic. 
We still talk to each other on Facebook and Skype. He’s become a really wonderful friend, and he plans to fly out to see me in a few months. 
Because I really like him and care about him, I officially had to admit to him that I have — another guy coming to see me still…. Even though I don’t talk to the other guy nearly as much as I do the Estonian, I do admit that I am in more than one “international” relationships. The Estonian was pretty annoyed — I think because he does like me — but — what can we do?

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend in Barcelona met him. She was a little annoyed that I was hooking up with a guy and bringing him along to hang out with us. I do understand her annoyance, but I mean come on. I haven’t really told anyone else.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Very consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I only regret not being a bit more mindful about condoms. That was stupid.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best part of the hookup was that incredible sex with a stranger in the rain. It was so passionate. He wanted me so badly, I felt like my life was changing. The second best part has been meeting a wonderful new friend, and being able to talk to him when I’m feeling a little isolated while living abroad.
There really isn’t a worst part, other than the fact that I’m seeing him while I am seeing someone else. It’s kind of an annoying reality, but it’s nice that I could be honest with him about it, and he’s chosen not to make a big deal out of it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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