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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Johannesburg
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Management consultant
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

One night in Johannesburg

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was Chinese, in his late 20s/early 30s, visiting Johannesburg on a business trip. He seemed clean cut. We chatted on Grindr and arranged to meet up.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We chatted on Grindr and agreed to meet up at his hotel. We were both horny and I was looking for a low key hookup.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I arrived at his hotel room, and got into the bed. We started making out and petting, and the clothes quickly came off. He pushed my head down toward his cock, and had me suck it. His cock was average sized, but thick. At one point, he reached over to the nightstand and gave me a breath mint, which I suckled on, while sucking his cock, giving him a cool, icy blowjob. He got hard in my mouth. He rolled on a condom and we sniffed some poppers. I sat on his hard, thick cock, and felt his cock in my tight hole. We fucked that way for a bit, then he pushed me off the bed and had me sit on a chair, with my ass hanging off the edge. He inserted his cock in me, and chair-fucked me. After some more hard fucking, I felt his cum fill up the condom in my ass. He pulled out, then indicated that he was done. My cock was throbbing, but he didn’t jerk or suck me off, and I didn’t cum.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The hookup was fun. He worked my ass over well, but he was a bit of a selfish lover. Once he got off, we were done. It was a bit of a turn on to be used, but it would have been nice to blow my load too.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His thick cock and hard thrusting.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t get off at the time. But I jerked off after I got back home.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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