What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 300
One Night Stand After the Office Christmas Party
How long ago did this hookup happen? A couple of weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met her in a queue for cabs after my office Christmas party. She was mid 20s, average height, slim, with her hair dyed dark red. We got chatting to pass the time. She was clearly quite drunk, and so was I. She was flirting with me and started warming her hands on my coat and then slipping them inside it and touching my sides and chest. Even though we didn’t live anywhere near each other, I suggested we share a cab.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She had her hands all over me again in the cab, and when we got to her place she jumped out and asked me if I was coming too. I paid the cab driver and followed her in. She shared a top floor flat with another girl, who was in the living room watching TV when we arrived. She introduced us and her flatmate looked at us in an amused sort of way. Then she led me to her bedroom.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She dropped her coat on the floor. She was wearing a short denim skirt and a green top underneath it. We sat on the bed and started kissing and removing each other’s clothes. I admired her naked body, her upper arms and her thighs covered in tattoos, then lay her on her back, spread her legs and went down on her a little to get her wet and warmed up. Soon, she reached into her handbag and gave me a condom to put on and we started fucking. I got quite vigorous with her quite quickly, and my technique was probably affected by how much I’d had to drink, but she was moaning and seemed to be having a good time, and I was enjoying the view of her nice breasts jiggling around as I fucked her and occasionally grabbed them and squeezed them. After a while, she told me she wanted to ride me, and in a flash I flipped on to my back and pulled her on top of me and we kept fucking. I played with her breasts some more as she bucked against me, and then she was saying “make me come, make me come”, and so I reached down and fingered her. We kept going like that until she came and then I let myself go and came inside her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Within a couple of minutes after we’d finished she’d fallen asleep, still sprawled naked on the bed, so I put her coat over her, got dressed and left. I had no intention of it being anything more than a one night stand, and I don’t think she did either.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Spontaneous, fun sex with a hot girl
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I’d probably have performed better if I hadn’t been so drunk… but I still managed to make her come.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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