What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? Indian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Quality Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than 20 Men
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
One Night Stand That Blossomed Into an Affair
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The guy with whom I hooked up was dark and handsome with an athletic body. We worked in the same office but in a different department so we knew each other for about a year before he was shifted to my department and I was assigned to work under him and help him in his transition as a Team Leader.
We worked together for a year more after which we finally decided mutually to hook up one fine day.
This guy was a real decent guy and respected all his coworkers and cared about everyone. This quality really attracted me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I distinctly remember the Thursday of 15th August 2013, it was my first fling that I had with my colleague from work. This was followed by many flings with the same dude which lasted a little longer than a year. But honestly, I cherish every moment spent with the guy.
It was Independence day in India and it was being celebrated in our office so we all came dressed up for the party. My husband worked in shifts so he could not attend the party. Also, he had to go on a tour right after his shift ended for some official work and he was going to be back on Monday. I attended the party with my two kids who were having a great evening.
As we were in the party hall, we failed to notice that it rained heavily while we were inside. It continued to rain heavily. The party got extended so I was about to leave with my kids (as they had school the next day) so I went to inform my Team leader.
He asked me to enjoy the party with kids as it rained heavily and it was difficult to drive in the rain.
I was relaxed as we had weekly off on Fridays so I asked the car which was leaving that had my female colleagues and their kids to accommodate my kids in the car and asked her to let them sleep at her home.
But the car was full and so it was not possible. It was 2 AM and my kids had dozed off so my Team leader picked up my boy and my girl in his each arm and placed them in his car.
“You would make a great dad,” I said to him.
“Only if I am lucky enough to get a smart and beautiful woman like you,” he said.
I think this was the point that the sparks happened. We chatted on the way to the parking lot and he said “It’s raining heavily and If you don’t mind we should stay in a motel nearby and go home in the morning when the rain stops”
My house was an hour drive more than the place where he lived and the drive was an hour and a half from where we were about to begin.
“I agree it’s a long ride in this rain, it would be unsafe, we should get rooms ”
We got to a motel, all drenched in rain and booked two rooms and he put my kids in the room and helped me to get out of their clothes, dry them and tuck them to bed.
It was 2:30 AM and I could see from the look in his eyes that he wanted to pounce on me and fuck my brains out once I gave my consent.
“The room is filled with the wet clothes of the kids, do you mind if I dry my clothes in your room?” I asked with a tone that said YOU HAVE MY PERMISSION TO FUCK ME.
I followed him to his room still not sure if he got my message but the moment I saw he put DO NOT DISTURB sign on the doorknob. I was sure I was going to have a memorable night.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once inside the room, I made sure the door was closed.
I took off my wet clothes and scattered them all around the room so that they dry. I was in a towel and I waited for him to make his first move so that I could follow, but I guess he was nervous since he knew I was married and was not sure how I would respond.
To ease him I put on dim lights got into bed and coved myself with the bed sheet, then I took off my towel and began drying my hair.
“I hope the kids are asleep, they were really tired,” he said as he looked out of the window as he saw the rain which had not stopped yet.
“Yeah I hope I get tired too and sleep like a baby,” I said as I got up a bit from my bed and made sure he got a glimpse of my breasts. He came closer and we kissed, then we smooched and he went to start kissing me all over my body.
While he was kissing, I got a message from my husband’s flight has reached his destination and will be back on Monday. I showed the message to my colleague.
He said “I hope this won’t your jeopardize marriage “
I said “Relax, this is just a casual fling, I love my husband and my kids and I won’t let this ruin my marriage ”
“Now you know we have three days with us, you will do as I say for the next three days. Now go down slowly on me and keep licking me till I tell you to stop.”
He did as I told him to do, I loved the role reversal and he seemed to like it too. He knew that I was his boss now and he would have to obey me for the next three days.
He tasted me where I wanted him to for about an hour till I wanted him to do.
“Did you like it? ” I asked, “Yes I do love to go down, do you me to go down again ”
“No, you did great, now let me thank you ” and I sucked him off.
We relaxed and kissed for a while. Neither of us was sleepy.
“Do you want me to check on the kids? ” he asked. “No, They won’t wake up till morning” I replied.
“Now go down on me again, and then when I tell you to start fucking me slowly ” I instructed him to which he instantly responded.
I was enjoying every moment of it, we kissed as he started pumping slowly.
“I don’t want to be able to walk tomorrow so fuck me harder, I don’t want to feel my face or hands after you’re done with me. Fuck me like you mean it” I got into my frenzy mode where I start talking filthy kinky stuff. “I just want to be your little fuck doll so that you can pound me all you want. Fuck me like your own me. “
He fucked me hard and good in the missionary position . ‘’You like how I fuck you?” He asked as he turned me over to fuck me from behind.
“I love it when you fuck me like a slut. I’ve been a really bad mother who loves fucking men after putting her kids to sleep other than her husband and I need to be punished, Pull my hair and slap me. Make me your bitch and Fuck my cunt.”
The dirty talk worked for both of us and he went on pounding.
I wanted to ride him so we switched position and he lay on the bed, I sit astride him with his penis inside me. I asked him to grab my breasts and squeeze my nipples as I enjoyed grinding my pelvis. “Fill me up and Don’t stop,” I screamed as I came.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? By the time we were done, it was 6 AM and we were really tired and went to sleep.
I got up at 10 AM and went to check on the kids, they were still asleep. So I came back to the room and slept for a while. Later we had lunch and the had more sex.
I felt that I could work this out and have occasional flings with my colleague.
He is my friend so he is cool and we never regretted our flings ever.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? First of all, I found an alternative sexual partner for booty calls, which I believe is like a secret stash of pleasure just a call away.
I blocked away all the thoughts that I was a mother, a wife, an employee and became a carefree Woman.
Acted out all my fantasies and his too based on mutual understanding .
Talk to my lover and express everything without hesitation.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I have come to believe that monotonous and routine life kills a marriage. No matter how much you convince yourself, your relationships are bound to go downhill, if the zing or magic to spice up your life is missing.
Let’s accept the fact that every relationship/marriage is exciting at the beginning and then gradually the fun element declines sooner or later. Having said that I love my husband and my kids and I would never think about separating from them because of some casual flings.
Women fantasize a lot and if this fantasy becomes true, these reinforced memories will last forever and it becomes like a treasure for the woman, which she can visit anytime.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We fucked for 3 consecutive days and went to work on Monday. This first experience will always be etched in my brain.
I believe if you have courage, take a guilt-free pass and set your self free without any guilt. Life is short so add a lot of memories to live with.
I am lucky that I met a guy who was a safe bet and would not ruin my life by revealing our affair.
We fucked a lot when my husband was away for a year for work. I cherish that time spent and never regret any moment.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual Sex for me is a WIN-WIN situation for people who are cool with the fact that the, whatever happens, the consequence shall be taken in a positive way. Casual Sex can be best enjoyed if like-minded people meet and shed all inhibitions and be themselves who they really are.
Personally, after having two kids and getting into a routine life of looking after family and working, there was very little time for me and my husband to spend quality time together.
With my office weekly off on Friday and his being on Sunday, it made all the more impossible for us to get time for sex.
If fortunate Quickies happened when all luck favored on our side and maybe we had it once every fortnight.
I can have casual sex if a person is sane and is no threat to my marriage or my health.
A lot of married women have casual flings but it is considered bad, however, if a married man is a playboy its OK, I believe this has to change.
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