by hoopity boop floopity fluppin

Gender: Female
Age: 20
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: UK
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Other
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? I don’t think I can count them all, but I’d say somewhere around 60-70
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

One of My Fondest Sexual Memories

How long ago did this hookup happen? Just over two years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Spontaneous love-making.

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had seen this person around a few times and felt an immediate and strong attraction, almost magnetic. For the most part when I’d see this person I’d do that whole pretend not to be/try not to look thing which is actually kind of silly. He was a tall,  Eastern European with a lovely nose (prominent but not too big), cheekbones that slope and taper inwards like an elongated heart, dense eyebrows and very beautiful lips with the bottom lip slightly bigger than the top. He had moles/beautyspots on his body and his hands and feet were goofily big in comparison with his thin frame, in a very cute way.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As I said before, I was very attracted to him quite quickly. I didn’t actually think an opportunity would arise though but after a few run-ins at social gatherings he had used social media to invite me to a local gig, although I had not been online so I was oblivious to that. Nevertheless I, by some sort of magical power/lucky coincidence, ended up at this gig with a couple of friends  and there we both were, on a dancefloor with our feet pointing towards eachother dancing energetically without much rest. I’d drank plenty of tequila and I was enjoying what I would describe as a very enjoyable, non-messy state of intoxication. At one point he wiped the sweat from his forehead and cheekily applied it on my face before lifting me up, throwing me over his shoulder and swirling around a few times playfully. Near the end of the gig we asked eachother what our plans were for the rest of the night and somehow this led to him walking me home , however I (genuinely) had misplaced my key so he took me home to his house were we sat out the front smoking a joint and began to cuddle and exhale the smoke back to eachother beneath the stars and the streetlights. We ate some cake and headed for the bedroom where he was enough of gentleman to ask if I would like him to lay out a bed on the floor for me but I told him not to bother and we hopped into bed for what I thought would just be us two falling asleep due to complete exhaustion caused by dancing, drinking, smoking, walking etc.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We both lay there for a moment, resting at first but as we came closer we became warmer and clothes just fluttered away. It was my time of the month which meant I wasn’t really up for having sex or letting him go down there but it didn’t matter too much to me because I’m pretty much a serious phallus worshipper and was very happy, satisfied and turned on to be able to go down on him. I was kissing, biting, licking, massaging and simply loving his whole body and let him do similar to me in the areas I felt comfortable with. It all felt really magical, and despite being on my period his touch made feel great and all the endorphins minimized any of the cramps/grumpiness I may have felt due to being “on my moons”. I didn’t reach an orgasm as I usually need intercourse/gone down on but how close to orgasm he brought me without that was pretty amazing. It was WOW. The radio was on lowly in the background and we giggled about some of the songs. Other than that there wasn’t much talking until the morning… We did whisper some things to each other, and I enjoyed the sound of his voice. I also enjoyed his scent, the texture of his hair, skin, his whole vibration and the taste of him. I don’t think I’d have as fond memories if even one of these senses were irritated. All of my senses were stimulated in a positive way, I don’t think there was anything I disliked.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Pregnancy wasn’t really an option at all as there was no intercourse. I didn’t use a condom whilst going down on him as I don’t really enjoy that. There wasn’t much talk of STI’s but I always get checked after I’m with someone I haven’t been with before/haven’t been with in a while.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Is this a serious question? Hmmm. I guess it just all happened naturally without much effort. No real reasons other than we were both pretty intensely attracted to eachother.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, tequila and weed. Not too much.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? This night led to a few other sexual encounters that summer and a lot of messaging with this man. I think the night I’ve described was definitely the best and probably the best/most memorable sexual encounters of my life so far. 

Around that time I still had the idea of wanting a traditional relationship with someone, but it never happened between us for a few different reasons I guess and now since I’ve kept moving in the game I’ve had relationships with others and came to a conclusion that when you begin a relationship, you’re silently signing an agreement that it’s all downhill from there. Any relationship I’ve ever been in before or after that night has ended (mostly messily, as I’ve got a very hot temper) and I respect this person way too much to let that happen. I still think about him and we speak on occasion, but he’s far away right now. 

Sometimes I long for him or at least that magical feeling which happened that evening and sometimes I wonder what it might be like if we had a night together now, two years on. I’m sure he has learnt plenty and developed since then so it would be interesting if were were to find ourselves in bed together again, but in a way I think it might ruin the memory I have.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one really.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yep.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Sometimes I feel like I do, but only when I’ve been with other people and realize they just don’t satisfy me in the same way. If I’d not hooked up with this guy and had such a wonderful experience I’d probably not  know any better and be satisfied with other men. I guess this experience has raised my standards which isn’t always a good thing.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think I’ve explained it all pretty well enough now.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

 

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