What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Columbus, OH
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Besides me, there were three others – two men and one woman. The first man, who initiated it all (we’ll call him Jake) was about 5’9″, 160lbs, completely shaved smooth body. The other man, we’ll call him Mike, was about 6’3″, 200lbs. Both had dark brown hair and brown eyes. The woman, we’ll call her Kayla, was about 5’2″, probably around 140lbs, with 32D cup breasts. We had never hooked up before, but Jake put an ad on Craigslist for guys to hook up with him and his girlfriend, Kayla, and so Mike and I responded and all met at Jake’s apartment. I’d never met them before, but they were very laid back and cool.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began online. Jake had put out an ad on Craigslist, which Mike and I responded to. As it turns out, Kayla didn’t know about the ad until after I’d shown up, but she was immediately okay with it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Just about everything happened during the hookup. Tons of oral (Kayla sucked us all off at once), double penetration of Kayla, and we even filmed it! Everyone was super respectful and didn’t push anyone to go beyond their comfort level. I was extremely turned on. Everyone seemed to be a good lover. Mike had probably the largest penis I’ve ever seen (likely around 9″), while Jake was on the slightly-smaller-than-average side, probably slightly under 5″. (I’m in the middle at about 7″). Kayla was the most energetic during the entire thing, she was begging us to go harder, faster, longer – it was intense. Luckily, between the three of us, we probably got her off around 4 or 5 times. After I came, I left (I had a meeting to get to), but the others continued for who knows how long.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterward, I felt somewhat guilty, given that I had a girlfriend at the time. I was hoping to continue hooking up with this crew but ultimately decided to be faithful to my girlfriend and disconnected from them. All in all, I’m glad it happened – great experience.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My one close friend who reacted with a lot of shock, haha
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Just because I was in a relationship.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Everyone was really attractive and very into it. No one was hesitant.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish I would’ve done more. Jake was definitely bisexual and he asked me to do things with him, but I was too nervous. It would’ve been a bucket list thing for sure
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it’s too prevalent, to be honest, but I think in the right circumstances, it can be amazing. If there’s chemistry, it can be an incredible experience
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