by loulou
Gender: Female

Age: 24
Race/ethnicity: White British
Location: UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Nursing
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months ago.

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was about 5’8 (quite short for my usual tastes). Met him through a friend once before when I was drunk. He thought I was a lesbian and I hadn’t paid him any mind. Second time of meeting, we hit it off.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was out with work colleagues for drinks and he tagged along with one of my work friends. I’d been previously (non sexually) hooking up with this work friend, who then reintroduced me to the guy. He started talking, flirting, giving the eyes. It was mutually instigated. It started with him asking me ‘how’ I was single. A few of us went on to another bar. Work friend was disgruntled and went home leaving me and the guy. We then continued to get drunk and ended up back at his.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I stayed at his with the promise of not having sex but stripped down naked and got in his bed. We ended up having amazing but drunk sex. There was a lot of biting, scratching and dirty talk on my behalf. He was a bit more quiet, but I didn’t care. I had 5-6 orgasms, he had already pre-cummed a lot before he finally came inside me. We were both respectful towards one another, making light of the situation. It was still a very highly sexually charged atmosphere.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I knew I was clean. I was on the pill, but we didn’t use a condom, so not very good as I didn’t know about his history, only my own.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I just wanted to fuck him. Nothing more.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We were really drunk by the time we had sex but capable of having fun and having amazing sex.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Fell asleep almost immediately after but woke up the next morning, a little bit hungover, naked and dazed. We had a nice morning. He made me a cup of tea, chatted, and watched films in bed. We had sex again, but sober this time and it was even better than the night before. You know when you just have a sexual, physical connection with someone.
We still see each other a couple of times a week, 5 months on. He has stated he doesn’t want a relationship, and even though I do, it wouldn’t be with him. So for now, we are just enjoying the company and the sex until something better comes along. I still hook up with other people whenever I want to, I assume he does too, we just don’t talk about it!

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends. Our mutual friend wasn’t very happy and still tried fucking me after this, until I told him it wasn’t appropriate. My friend now, 5 months later, thinks the hook up isn’t very healthy and I should drop him.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual and most definitely wanted, on both parts.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I am getting regular good sex – before this, it was more intermittent and I need to have sex quite regularly. The worst thing is keeping emotions in check.

It hasn’t changed my views on casual sex, I think if both people know where they stand and they’re having fun, why not.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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