by Butterfly

Gender: female
Age: 26
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Location: Asia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Online encounter

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup: Virtual boyfriend

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met online via yahoo chatrooms

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Both parties were involved

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We did sex chatting online.  We both were online…and then after talking of general stuff for sometime, things became a bit hotter. We earnestly began to talk about each other’s bodies… We talked of sensations to each other… Ultimately talking of sex made him rush to bathroom multiple times.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Completely virtual encounter…no risk of diseases, lol

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted it and so did he. Mutual feelings

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We broke up later on.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing it was online…no risk of diseases or pregnancy

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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