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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Washington DC
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25

Online Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met through a dating app and chatted briefly over text.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met up at a bar and talked for about an hour. Once we seemed to feel comfortable with one another, I suggested heading to my hotel room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once in the room, she immediately undid my pants and gave me an awesome blowjob. We shed our clothes and went into the bedroom. I returned the oral favor. She had several orgasms and was really wet. When she asked, “Are you going to fuck me now,” I about lost it right there. We fucked in several positions. She told me later that she lost track of the number of orgasms she had. After, we chatted more and rested. About 20 minutes later, we were both really frisky again and started things back up. She squirted a LOT, and the bed was soaked. It was pretty clear we had a strong sexual connection. She responded with pleasure to hair pulling, choking, restraining, slapping her tits, etc. She rimmed me, begged for anal, and brought out her toys. We fucked on the bed, in the shower, and in other parts of the suite. I had completely lost track of time when the sun came up. Her text to me later that day was, “Damn, can’t wait to do that again!” We met up about another dozen times with the same intensity.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was purely sexual. We both had no interest in a romantic arrangement, but we did have fun, interesting conversations. She’s really smart, well traveled, and we had quite a bit in common.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was super intense.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sex can be a primal, instinctual act. Humans are lucky in that we physically enjoy the act. With the right partner, separating the emotional aspects from the physical aspects is a fulfilling encounter.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

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