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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? IT Professional
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? a few

only anal

How long ago did this hookup happen? 13yrs

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She’s tall, dark hair, dark skin, brown eyes, middle Eastern and French. I met her through a friend… first sight and I wanted to get naked with her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were hanging out at a coffee shop and she was complaining that her boyfriend broke up with her. She wanted company, and I was glad to provide, if even solely platonically. I asked her to come to my place with me because I had to feed my dog. She happily came along.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? 10 minutes into sitting on my sofa, she asked for a drink. It was pretty early, but I’m not one to judge, or pass up an opportunity to share a drink. We had some wine, then moved closer to me. I put my hand on her neck, she put her hand on my leg, all of a sudden we’re making out. We kissed and petted for at least 10 minutes. Then she’s taking off her shirt while saying “We can only do anal, and head is OK.”

Well, she knows what she wants…
I take off my shirt, grab her jeans and pull them off hard. My jeans were off, and she grabs my dick pretty hard while kissing my chest. She works her way down, but only goes as far as kissing around my dick. I grabbed her and turned her around, while she gasped “Only my ass.”
I led her to the bedroom, pushed her onto the bed, got a condom and lube. As she was bent over, I licked her pussy and ass. She lit up when my tongue touched her asshole, so I just kept going, her moaning and swearing egging me on. I slipped a finger in, then another, just couldn’t stand the excitement and slid my dick in. The condom broke. Fucking A. She’s yelling to fuck her as hard as I can and to slap her. I slapped her ass so hard it left an immediate hand print. Dick back in, no condom, fucking her as hard as I can. I reached for her clit but she was already there. She arched her back, I grabbed her hair and throat, and just kept fucking. She came in a shaking, moaning, cussing fit. I came as I pulled out, getting cum on her ass.
As we lay in bed, she started rubbing my dick and kissing my chest again. Working her way down, but around my dick. She did this for a few minutes before I shoved my dick in her mouth, greeted by a happy blowjob for 30 seconds or so. Then back to licking around my dick, balls, perineum, then my asshole. She spread my legs and licked more, then rubbed her fingers around and on my ass. I lifted my legs and she licked away. It felt fucking amazing. I rolled over, totally relishing this, the first time my ass was ever licked. On my hands and knees, she plunged her tongue in, then a finger. She put lube on my ass, then slid a couple fingers in as she jacked me off. She was a bit violent with the dick, but it felt good. Before I could come she stopped and laid on her stomach. Dick back in her ass, pumping until I came again. She didn’t come this time, so I gave her oral in the doggie position.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked a bit, she said her boyfriend wouldn’t let her touch his ass, explains that she was staying a vaginal virgin until marriage.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Pregnancy: only anal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? nobody

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was very fun

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I really wanted her pussy.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She got back together with her boyfriend a few days later, I hear they eventually got married.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s great

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? it’s great

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!