by Rebecca

Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: United Kingdom
Highest education received: High school diploma
Occupation: Store assistant
Relationship status: Long term relationship
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Oops I Did It Again

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 days ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand, potential fuck buddies, sort of my friend with benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 30 years old, physically fit, kind man. I’ve been friends with him a few year, we have similar taste in music and get on well together. We fucked once before after a night of dancing, smoking weed and drinking, we fucked multiple times in a park in the early hours on a cool morning in January.¬†
So because of that past encounter, which we’d both spoke of making it a regular fuck buddy agreement, I was still very attracted to him, the feeling was mutual. I’d said no to sleeping together again because we are both in long term relationships and I said done shit about wanting to be a ‘better person’. After some resistance on his part we agreed it was best to just be distant friends.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On a Tuesday night in town, the day had begun so innocently, shopping with my friend turned into staying out drinking. It was a friend’s birthday so we popped over to the pub they were at to say hello. And there he was. No girlfriend on his arm, my boyfriend was at work. The instant I saw him I felt attracted to him intensely. The night went on, we went to a nightclub, we danced together, he told me he wanted to fuck. I was ready to go. I told my friend she was cool with it so we went back to his place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Nothing kinky or too aggressive took place. We both have partners so biting (my favourite) was a strict no. It seemed to make it sexier in a way, I knew I couldn’t be too rough although my entire being wanted to eat him up! He came too fast, like an eager dog he couldn’t wait. We took a breather and I suggested we start, with me taking the lead. Grinding on him slow kept him from finishing so fast but kept me coming over and over.¬†
After round two we knew what we had wanted had been accomplished so I ordered a taxi and left. I had no intention of staying and we both knew it so it was cool.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No need for condom we know each other well enough that we needn’t of worried.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He was there, we were horny. Possibly to get closure on our last encounter

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol, not too much though!

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Guilt for doing it because I have a partner, but not as much as I’d imagined. No future other than to fuck again if we fancy.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend, who was supportive of it

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Only because I have a long term partner

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Freedom, feeling very sexy and empowered 
Guilt for hurting my boyfriend, but he doesn’t know

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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