What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Open-air Adventure in Rio de Janeiro
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Matheus was a bartender who I met in Rio. I had been travelling through South America for a couple of months and spent my last three days there before going back to Europe. On my second night I went out with a friend and saw him behind the bar when I ordered our first round of drinks. He immediately caught my eye. He was dark, tall and incredibly handsome as he looked at me with his brown eyes and big smile. I could tell that there was an immediate attraction and I knew that I wanted to talk to him but didn’t know how as he was working, firstly, and secondly I am a naturally shy person.
So I figured I would write him a message on a little piece of paper saying that the next day was going to be my last day in Rio and that if he wanted to show me around, he should contact me. I wrote my phone number and name under the message, folded the paper and gave it to him with a nervous smile while ordering our second round of Caipirinhas.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was 4 o’clock in the morning when my friend and I got home from our night out. We’d had a lot of fun going to different clubs but I could not wait to get back to the hostel to check my phone and see if he had texted me. I turned on the wifi and waited until I saw a message coming in from an unsaved number. It was him. We texted the entire night (he didn’t speak English and only very limited Spanish which made things a little complicated but we made it work.) We set a date for the next day, he wanted to take me to a park at the bottom of the Corcovado which seemed like a nice place to go see.
When I arrived he was already waiting for me, still looking as gorgeous as the night before. He gave me a kiss on the cheek and said hi. As we were walking around the park, we were chatting away and despite the language barrier – suprisingly – didn’t have any problems talking to eachother. At this point I didn’t just feel attraction but an inredible mental connection as well. After a while of walking, we ended up standing on a small bridge over a little river and next to a little waterfall. He told me that he wanted to “enjoy the view”, but then wouldn’t stop looking at me with his sexy dark eyes. He put one hand gently on my hip, the other one on the back of my neck and pulled me towards him to give me the most electrifying kiss I’d had in a very long time.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we were walking up the hill we would stop every now and then to have intense make out sessions. We were all over each other. His hands were all over my body and mine all over his. The whole situation felt unreal and incredibly exciting at the same time. In between make outs we walked further up the hill and there were fewer and fewer people. We walked (or rather hiked) until we reached a very small platform in the middle of the rain forest where we had an amazing view of the sea and a part of the city. It was a nice little hidden place.
He leaned against a tree and hugged me from behind as I enjoyed the view. But he wouldn’t let me do that for long and started distracting me by kissing my neck- my weak spot. I couldn’t withhold a moan as I was so turned on by him. His hands ran up my belly towards my breasts and he gently grabbed them, still kissing my neck. I was breathing heavily, holding onto his hands, pressing them against my body. With a firm movement he turned me around and kissed me on my lips. His were soft but demanding and his tongue tasted sweet on mine. While we were kissing he lifted my dress and grabbed my butt firmly which turned me on even more. I sighed. He let me know that he wanted me by the way he looked at me, that he desired me more than anything else in that moment. And I let him. I let him have it all. He moved my panties aside and started touching my already soaking pussy. He slid in between my pussy lips and started gently circling around my clit with his fingers. I had to hold onto him as I could feel my legs weaken. He knew exactly what he was doing and I nearly came right then and there. I closed my eyes and could feel him kiss my neck again, then his lips wandered over my chest towards my nipples. He started sucking and biting them gently which pushed me over the edge and I orgasmed intensely.
I kissed him and smiled. It was my turn to return the favour. I started passionately kissing him again and I could feel his hard dick against my leg. I ran my fingers underneath his shirt. His stomach felt so good and sexy against my hands. I unbuttoned his jeans and started rubbing his dick over his underwear. But I finally wanted to completely feel him. So I grabbed his dick and started giving him a hand job. As I was kneeling in front of him, both of my hands running up and down his hard cock, I could feel him getting closer and closer to cumming. To my surprise he stopped me and made me stand up again to kiss him.
He pulled out a condom and looked at me. I kissed him sighed and nodded all at the same time. He put on the condom, turned me around again so that I was facing the city views and slid into my still very wet pussy from behind. With one hand he grabbed my hip, with the other he gently pulled back my long blonde hair and started fucking me passionately. It was incredibly hot. His dick felt so good sliding in and out of me. It didn’t take us long to find the perfect rhythm and it felt as though our bodies became one.
He decided we changed positions and turned me around a third time. I leaned against the tree now and he was standing in front of me. We still hadn’t had enough of each other so he started fucking me again. This time with a harder, faster thrust. He bit my collar bone, I sunk my nails into his back and kissed his neck. It was even hotter this time round. It was wild uninhibited sex. I was close again when he pressed his forehead against mine and looked at me which turned me on even more. He came and his hot sweaty body sunk heavily onto mine. We kissed one last time before he pulled out.
Still in disbelief of what just had happened I put on my panties and fixed my hair. He looked at me with a smile and we both started laughing. It was the most perfect moment. He leaned against the tree again and hugged me from behind, pointing at random buildings of Rio and telling me things about them that I can’t remember. Even though I didn’t really know him I felt close to him and he made me feel safe.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After our little adventure in the park he had to go to work and I had to catch my plane back to Europe at 5 in the morning. Matheus and I are still in touch, eventhough that was the last time I saw him. We text each other very often and I’m planning on going back to Rio some time soon.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told this story to some very close friends and they were happy for me. Although they did utter some concern about meeting a complete stranger alone in a city where I didn’t know anyone.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The mind blowing sex. And also meeting someone with whom I had an immediate connection despite not speaking the same language.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to leave Rio a couple of hourse later. I feel like this could have been the beginning of something special.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am a very open person when it comes to casual sex. I have it, I enjoy it and I would encourage anyone to try it at least once.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Ever since I discovered this page, I have very much enjoyed reading the various stories that are posted on here. I think it is a great platform to share experiences.
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