by Do I Really Gotta?

Gender: Male
Age: 42
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: TX
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Engineer
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Unitarian?
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Adventurous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Around 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

Open Secret

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 or 4 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Booty Call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is my best friend’s cousin and I’ve known / crushed on her since we were teenagers. Blonde, divorced, two kids- was athletic in high school, now very curvy.
We flirted through high school and into our 20’s, but it remained innocent.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My wife and I had recently tried having an open marriage, and she had a guy in her cross-hairs. My wife was going out on a “date” for the night with the hope of getting laid by this dude.
So, since she was recently divorced, I looked her up on facebook and asked her if she was interested in a hookup. She said yes and I asked her to meet me at a bar near my apartment for drinks. She met me there but declined to drink, since she would need to drive home later. I finished the one I ordered while waiting for her to arrive we went back to my apartment.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing on the couch, and it got passionate pretty quickly. I started to undress her in the living room and she gave me amazing head.
I grabbed her hand and took her to our spare bedroom where I pushed her onto the bed and began kissing her thighs. I took off her underwear and nuzzled her untrimmed muff before eating her out. She went nuts, squirming across the bed.
I put on a condom and entered her missionary with me standing up. She moved her hips in ways I never imagined possible. She was a loud moaner and it drove me nuts. I surprised myself that I could last as long as I did.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did, if she didn’t she should be an actress.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms. Never discussed STIs, but knew each other’s histories pretty well.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Curiosity, lust, and horniness

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had one drink, she had none.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled naked for a bit, then she said she needed to get home and got dressed. We made out a bit more on the way down to her car. I was grinning like a stupid little kid.
We hooked up one other time after this, while my wife slept in the other room. But that was awkward for both of us (my wife never knew about the second encounter) and we decided to cool it and just remain friends.
I still talk to her online occasionally and still have fondness for her, but I would be surprised if we ever hook up again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My wife. She was happy for me. I was happy for her, too. We basically traded notes on our evening with other partners. Made for some hot foreplay. 😉

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual for everyone involved.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope. There aren’t many chances in life to finally have sex with someone you’ve lusted after for 20 years.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: getting to hook up with her after years of flirting, and she was crazy in the sack
Worst: it ending abruptly like it did. I would have enjoyed a fwb situation with her.
It didn’t change my feelings about casual sex, and was a massive ego boost.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? She was not the reason my wife closed our marriage, perhaps that will be my next story.
I hate being monogamous, only because my sex drive is much higher than hers. I keep bringing up the subject of opening up the marriage again. Maybe one day…

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