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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? St. Louis
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Business
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? N/A
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 22 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a couple of years older than me and was really nice. She was a BBW who I went to school with and had blonde hair and blue eyes. One day she called me cute and then we started flirting a lot.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a party and we talked about all kinds of stuff. She told me she wanted to taste a black cock so we found a quiet spot away from everyone. It was all very impulsive.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I dropped my pants and she fell to her knees with her eyes glistening. She grabbed my dick and slid her hands all over my shaft. She took it in inch by inch until she was deepthroating me. I felt amazing, a euphoric high. She let me throat fuck her and wanted me to cum down her throat.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great and when we saw each other again it wasn’t weird at all.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) no penetrative sex happened.

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was the best blow job I ever had.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It ended. Couldn’t see her again because she ended up moving.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She was my first blow job and anal sex.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If you single or free so what you want. Don’t hurt others in the process.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s awesome as folks can confess to experiences that we can’t tell our friends, lovers, and family.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!