by jacrou

Gender: Female
Age: 46
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: NZ
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Co Director
Relationship status: Divorced
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 46
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Numerous

Orgasms For All-Comers, Part II

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? FB

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this guy online and we’d been chatting a while.  I liked him in chat.  He was enthusiastic and kind of interesting.  He is in his late 30s and is a struggling artist, working a bunch of other jobs to support himself.  He is quite cheerful and laid back.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We’d been chatting for ages and I had a free night, with no kids and no plans.  He had been very patient because I wasn’t really in a hurry to meet anyone.  I  value  patience – a lot of online guys fade off pretty quick if things don’t happen in the first week and that’s kind of a test for me, if they’re prepared to hang in there for a while and invest in some chat and banter.  I’m still not looking for a relationship but I want to get on with men I meet and enjoy their company.

So anyway, we set a time for early evening and I invited him over. I had got home from my hotel hookup with the couple in the early afternoon, and even though I’d had a great sleep that night before, I felt quite exhausted, maybe from the champagne with breakfast or maybe all the activity! I ended up having a sleep on my couch in the afternoon (which is an amazing luxury for a busy working solo mum!).  I then got ready for L’s arrival. I couldn’t really think what to wear as this was a meeting for sex, but i did think we’d probably have a drink first. So I put on a negligee and robe, I figured he’d be fine with that.

I was feeling quite nervous when he turned up but the nerves faded quickly as he was a really sweet guy.  He had clearly dressed himself up a bit and he brought a bottle of sparkling rose with him which was a nice touch. So we sat on my couch and drank that and chatted.  He is easy to talk to.  He is nice looking, not mega-handsome, more average.  Slightly long hair, tall and thin.

We drank most of the wine before we started kissing and touching and undressing each other on my couch.  He was a nice kisser.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I had his shirt off only and then he pushed me down onto my back on the couch, removed my knickers and began to eat me. Gosh he was really good at that.  Or maybe it was that I was already quite sensitive due to the all the sex I’d just had. Either way, it was great and I came fast.  I then removed his jeans and undies so I could suck his cock.  Well I had seen a picture of his cock before and it looked quite nice and quite big but it’s hard to tell in pictures.  However it was even better in reality.  He’s a slightly weedy guy and he confessed he’s a bit self-conscious about his body.  His cock is 8 inches and really really thick and very smooth and pink and even shiny looking and honestly when he was sitting there on my couch my thought was that his cock looked photoshopped onto his body (a thought which made me laugh).  I got on my knees on the floor and began to kiss and lick and suck it.  I REALLY enjoyed sucking his cock because he gave great feedback and response, so I knew exactly what he was liking and what he wasn’t and he was quite vocal in expressing his enjoyment.  And it was such a lovely cock too that I just wanted to kiss it and be close to it anyway.

After doing that for a while we fucked on my couch. First doggie, then he got on his back and I rode him.  It all felt really great.  He asked if anal was a possibility – he’s only tried it once before.  I got the lube and we tried it but honestly he is very wide and when he was about half way in I said, maybe not today, I don’t think I can do it. He was cool with that.

After that, he ate me again, and this time he put his fingers inside me and rubbed my g-spot quite vigorously (pretty much like I had done to R earlier that day).   It felt so so good and I started cumming again.   Then he started to slap his tongue against my clit quite vigorously and firmly and I started to squirt continuously.  He very valiantly continued to do this while I squirted in his face.  I was very impressed with both his stamina and his dedication.  This was a truly earth-shattering orgasm which left me trembling and weak and totally blissed out.

He was still very hard so he lay on his back again and I sucked him a bit more, then rode him, and came and squirted again,  and then finally he fucked me in missionary and he came.

After that we both felt quite hungry so had some cheese and crackers and drank some more wine.  Then we went to bed.  We were spooning and he was hard again, so we had nice spoon sex before dropping off to sleep.

In the morning he was hard again, so I sucked his cock a while, then rode him til he came.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and yes. Me around 5 times I think? Him, 3 times.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms. We didn’t discuss STI history.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Always on the lookout for potential FBs to add to my life to keep it interesting and satsifying.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? wine – moderate.  He had some weed which we might’ve smoked but we were too lazy and it was too cold to go outside.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Shortly after the morning sex he left to go surfing and I was pleased with that, as I had stuff to do.  Have stayed in touch with him and I will probably see him again, it went pretty well and he is keen to repeat.   I think I will try though to not see him too often as I want to ensure things are kept very casual.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends.  No details about the sex, more just the fact it happened.  And really just because I was frustrated that I couldn’t mention the cool sex I had with the couple the same weekend.  My friends are getting used to my new life now so don’t think much of it.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? best thing was continuing on a weekend of just really really good and satisfying sex.  By the end of it I felt fantastic.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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