by Older Married Couple
Gender: Male/Female Couple
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Religious affiliation: Jewish/Methodist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Heterosexually Attracted/Bisexually Amorous
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Our First Couple/Couple
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
How would you best classify this hookup? Swing Date
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was dominant and in charge, he was submissive to her but not to us. She was tall, blonde, busty and curvy, maybe 45 or so, very cute in an unextraordinary way. He was good looking, average to maybe slightly taller than average and fairly athletic.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had had some 3 way experiences, both casual sex from Craigslist ads and paid sex with Dominatrixes. We posted an ad on Craigslist wanting to meet a couple. We described ourselves as looking for anything from vanilla to kinky D/s. Wife and hubby had discussion about limits and about how the wife had total veto power about anything that happened with no questions asked. Hubby made clear his desires for oral with both potential partners. Wife said “Don’t expect me to do anything bi, I don’t think it turns me on.”
They answered with a nice email, and we sent a couple of e-mails back and forth. One had pictures of them with her bent over and him taking her from behind so we had thought that maybe she was submissive. In any case, they looked hot and a little out of our league so we were thinking how lucky we were if this was really them.
We chose a restaurant to meet at that was between the four of us and met them there for a light dinner. They were late and we feared being stood up. But they finally texted saying traffic was bad and when they came in we were taken by how good looking they were.
We sat a the table and made the typical chit chat that you make when dining with someone you don’t know. But at some point, one of them asked us about our swinging history and we told them about it. They told us a little about theirs. And then he said shall we go get a room and play. Hubby suggested a hotel and they followed us. The two guys went to get the room while the two girls chatted a little, with no mention of sex. We got to the room and they sat on one bed and we sat on the other.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She took charge and described that usually when they played, she was the aggressor. She opened a bag they brought and brought out some toys, including a flogger and some dildos. With the flogger in hand, she said “shall I ravage you (to hubby) or you (to wife).
At this point, wife’s total bi experience amounted to a paid sex worker fingering her and a few boob to boob kisses and wife had only touched the sex workers breasts and bottom in a curious but not particularly sexual fashion. So hubby was pleasantly surprised when wife volunteered to be “ravaged”. The four of us stripped down to undies and the other woman, D, took wife into D’s arms and they made out. D took the flogger and gave wife a few playful swats which wife was surprised to enjoy. D came over to hubby and made out with him and got him into a submissive position. Hubby was on his knees and on the floor as D stripped the two women and took wife to the other bed. Her partner, H, sat close as she got on top of wife and made out and started grinding wife. They did a lot of breast touching and H rubbed and played with Wife’s bottom. D got pretty aggressive with wife and they both got very excited with Wife getting off. Then H instructed wife to suck off D while she came to hubby.
Hubby was told to get on the bed and orally worship D both vaginally and orally, and D had several orgasms. Wife and H played and watched. H got out the dildo and used it anally on hubby and D came over at H’s command and hubby sucked H.
For the next hour or so, H commanded all the action. Both wife and hubby were kept busy with oral service. D did use the flogger and a paddle in a playful, more symbolic fashion. She really loved wife’s smaller breasts and they did much breast play and making out. H put his cock in hubby’s mouth whenever D and wife were playing.
Wife had several powerful orgasms til she got to the point of not wanting any more. Both D and H gave her orgasms. Hubby was allowed to masturbate for the others to watch. H didn’t cum. D came with wife and several times from hubby’s oral. She also used hubby’s cock to masturbate herself to a crashing orgasm. It was during this act that it became clear that D was cuckolding H via her masturbatory play just as much as wife was cuckolding hubby .
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms for penis oral play, none for hubby’s oral with wife
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? After 20+ years of marriage with hubby going to see professional dominatrixes on the secret and wife only doing the most basic to fulfill hubby’s submissive needs, the relationship reached a breaking point. Hubby confronted wife with the fact that his needs were not being met and hers were. She agreed to go see a ProDomme with hubby. A few hookups resulting in MFM [2 males and a female] play. Then came a paid sex encounter with a strap on specialist. She fingered both of us anally while hubby orally stimulated wife to orgasm. Hubby masturbated to orgasm on command while being fingered anally with wife calling him names and laughing at him.
Playing with a couple seemed like the next logical step on our adventures with open marriage and casual sex.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A round of wine by the glass at the restaurant, and a shared bottle at the hotel room. No one at any time was even close to tipsy, but both couples were into good wine. At a mid sex break, the four of us broke out of our Dominant to submissive “roles” and talked about wine like we would do when with any other couple. Then the ravaging restarted and we were in our hierarchy of D as leader, wife as her willing student and ravagee, H as her sub and hubby as sub to the girls.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went home and had great oral sex. The next morning too. The experience was fabulous and we hoped to repeat it, which we did. We tried several times to hook up a third time but logistics were bad. Sadly, while it looked like we were going to have a relationship with them, they backed out.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just us.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Both
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not in the least
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best was wife kissing D and the mutual breast play, wife watching D peg hubby with a dildo, and wife getting to see hubby go down on another woman which was one of her major fantasies. For hubby the oral action was what he craved. Really the entire time was fabulous. There was no worst part, only fantastic and even better than that. The experienced hooked us on casual sex and swinging in general.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? We are now confirmed hedonists and proud sluts. We believe in the use of the word slut meaning people who can have sexual play with just about anyone (anyone nice that is). When we go to a party or club, we PLAY. Other partners we have had since remark on our hedonistic approach. We just love to fuck (wife) and suck (hubby). We have been to house parties, clubs and had some hot couple couple action. We are currently in relationships with two couples (one on a temporary hiatus) and there is one gentleman who we only played with once but would love to play more with.
What did you think about this story? Tell us in the comments – just be nice!
You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!