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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 64
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? IT Professional
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? more that 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Our First Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner is an average looking woman with a BBW body type and my age. I have known her for almost one year prior to this threesome. The other man was 57 years old, with an average body, and very well hung. We met him online.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was my partner who suggested trying a threesome or foursome. We created an online profile and reviewed each contact, finally selecting the other man.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I had the other man sit next to my partner while I sat across from them. He took her hand, placed it on his crotch then took it out. She looked a little shocked by his size. Next, we stood in front of her while she switched sucking cocks. We moved to the bedroom where he began to fuck then I did. She sucked us both to completion.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had sex and shared our feelings. Both of were surprised at how good it had been.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only my partner.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sharing the experience with my partner and sex afterward.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I felt more confident afterward

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Discussing our fears ahead time helped us realize only we were holding ourselves back from exploring group sex. Having a thoughtful and respectful third was the most important element.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People should act on their fantasies/desires.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!