What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? england
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Business manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? generous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? about 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? we met them at our local taverna near to our apartment. the waiter was nice and friendly and I noticed him looking at my wife. she was in a short summer dress and looked lovely. the guy was about 30 and just normal build but he kept talking to o us in english, and said he wanted to improve and asked if we minded him talking. we chatted as it was quite and we told him where we’d visited and which beaches we had used. he laughed when we said which beach as its a nudist beach and looking at my wife I noticed him checking her body.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were on the beach, both of us naked when we heard a guy say hello to us, we looked up to see it was the waiter from the previous night.he wasn’t nude but in just some swim trunks, but we invited him to join us anyway which he did. He stripped off and joined us naked and we all got on well. He asked me if I minded other guys looking at her and when I said I loved it he confessed to liking her. I went for a swim with my wife and I told her he liked her and she admitted to liking him too. Back on the beach she flirted lots with us and the conversation turned to threesomes. She said she’d fantasized about them but had never done it, and without thinking I suggested we try. We were well hidden in the dunes so I told her to lay with him and let him touch her and she touch him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? They gave each other oral as I watched and then I looked on as he slid his cock inside her and fucked her hard. He started off on top of her and then turned her over and fucked her doggy style until he filled her pussy with his cum. She licked him clean as I fucked her and added to his cum.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met him again 3 times for sex until we left at the end of our week. We don’t keep in touch but since then I’ve shared her with other guys and we both love it and don’t plan on ever stopping.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? we’ve not told anybody close to us
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? watching my wife and another guy enjoying each other, and watching him cum inside her
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? having to stop
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? yes we both view sex as something fun and something to share. we make love to each other but with other people it’s just good fun.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? it’s also made us so much closer and happier with life.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m glad we’ve got into this lifestyle and would definitely recommend it
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Loving it
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