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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Los Angeles
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual


How long ago did this hookup happen? about 8 months

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was multiracial. Hazel eyes and carmel skin, shoulder length curly hair, about 5’1″. We met in AP Bio 3.5 years ago (11th grade, we’re college sophomores now) and became good friends. I was always kind of into her, let’s call her N.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were both sent out of class for talking to much. She’s a very loud funny person so thesis kind of the norm for her, but I’m usually pretty quiet in class, she’s just so fun to talk to. Sorry, that was kind of my fault, she said, with the cutest little smile. I laughed because why would I be mad. I wonder when she’ll let us back in (the teacher). Who cares she said and she walked back in and grabbed two yard sticks and came outside. We sword fought for a while which was really dorky and stupid but also really fun. She’s the funnest person I’ve ever met. Well anyway an administrator started coming down the hallway so we ran and hid up the stairs. We waited until he was gone and then we ran back down stairs. We talked for a bit and then I was just opening the door to see if we could come back in and then she pinned me against the door kissing me. We started making out and then we ended up on the floor and we stopped and started talking there because the floor is pretty nasty. My chin was resting like right below her belly button and i rubbed my hands on her stomach. We left to go to my house, which is close to school.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got there she took her shirt off and started kissing me. Her hands went everywhere, feeling my dick through my jeans. I could feel her smiling against my mouth as she unbuttoned my shirt while I slipped out of my shoes. The feeling of her fingers on my chest and stomach was amazing. She takes off her shorts and then her underwear, and now she’s just standing there laughing in just a bra and shoes, which drives me crazy. I back her onto the couch and we make out some more, with her hands all over my back. Then she rolls over on top and straddles me, taking off my belt and unzipping my jeans. She kneels down and pulls them off with , and I get on top off her on the rug, pulling off her shoes. I’m in my underpants and she’s completely naked except for one sock while she straddles me again. She kisses down my body until she gets to my waistband, and then she kisses on my inner thighs and all around, teasing me until I almost can’t take it anymore, then finally takes off my briefs and slides onto me. She’s heaven. We fuck sitting up on the rug with my back against the couch and her sort of on top of me facing me. Her legs are crossed around me over my legs which are on the floor. I have the best orgasms of my life and then go down and her until she comes.Then we went out to see a movie.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I knew she was scared of commitment so we kept it casual. She went to Berkeley and I go to art institute so after she got kicked out of the dorms second semester of freshmen year, we and a couple of friends from high school who went to schools in the area got an apartment together. It’s her and Megan (her best friend who’s at stanford)me, our friends Richard, Andrew, and Jake. I think she’s slept with everyone. It’s fun. We’re really good friends now.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? a couple friends, and her obviously. Later I told my older brother who hit on her when she came over during Thanksgiving break. Everyone reacted pretty positively who knew I had liked her. My brother gave no shits.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was amazing. Also getting to at least fuck some one I really liked, and having vaginal sex for the first time. Alos it lead to a FWB things.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I would have liked to date her. But I think it’s better that things turned out the way they did and we’re still friends.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? She really opened me up to the world of casual sex. I think it was especially impactful because she was the first person I had sex with and she was such a non conformist, strong woman.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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