What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on a swinging site and had been chatting on and off for a while. We finally agreed to meet up for a drink to see if we wanted to hook up. He was tall, slim and bald. Quite cocky but in a cute way and made me laugh. During our first meet we only kissed but agreed we definitely wanted more.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A few days later we met up again. He picked me up from my house and we ‘re used to going for a drive as we couldn’t hook up at either of our places. After driving around for a while and chatting we ended up in a car park near the local woods. We parked and immediately he leaned over and started kissing me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We continued kissing for a little while and then our hands began to wander and his made his way into my jeans and found my wet pussy. He began to stroke my clit then stuck two fingers inside me. I began to stroke his cock through his shorts. By this point, we were both very turned on and agreed to go for a walk.
We found a secluded area not far from the car park and we were soon kissing and had our hands down each other’s pants. He then said he wanted to fuck me and pulled down my jeans and turned me around. The place we had stopped was bear some railings so I held onto them as he bent me over and slid into my soaking pussy. He began slowly and then upped his pace. We kept at this for a while but then had to change position as it wasn’t very comfortable. We switched to me riding him cowgirl whilst he lay on the floor. It was quite a turn on riding him outdoors knowing someone may come by and catch us or at least hear us as I was starting to moan quite a bit.
We then changed to doggy and he pounded me hard in my pussy and began to touch my arse with his finger. Soon he was pushing his cock into my arse. It hurt at first (it was only my second time) but then started to be really enjoyable especially when he started playing with my clit as well. It was at this point he told me he was about to cum. He quickly pulled out just in time and then came all over my face and chest.
We cleaned up the best we could and then headed back to the car.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We agreed we wanted to meet again and cross a few more things off our sex bucket lists. Hopefully a MMF threesome.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To feel more confident, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my best friend who thought it was a great story and who wants go meet the guy.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex outdoors and the possibility of being caught.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It wasn’t that comfortable.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? A little bit. It made me feel less guilty about NSA sex as both of wanted it and there was mutual respect there.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Hoping to meet up again.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m starting to enjoy casual sex and not feeling guilty about it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Really like it. Down great stories.
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