What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 59
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Medical practitioner
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? heteroflexible
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? No idea
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my first
Overnight with the Domme
How long ago did this hookup happen? Ten years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a BBW, truly beautiful, though quite heavy and a beautiful face. Exquisite lips. That’s what took me that extra step. She was a professional Dominatrix. This was a club activity, but not a play night. I had read they were having a photo shoot, and that turned me on. I had no idea who would be there, nor if by just coming I might be in the shoot. As it was there were just a handful, two or three Dommes and maybe six or seven other people including their models and the photographer. This woman stood out. I am not terribly into BBWs as a rule, but if they are hot, they are hot. And she was hot. They really weren’t looking for volunteers, but still, I volunteered. And she let me be a nude body she was dominating. Her heel on my balls, that sort of thing. Never showed my face, but I was potentially going to be shown on her website as an example of the fun you could have.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?
That was all it was, though I was hoping it would lead to a play party. But it was just a photo shoot. We all got dressed, and I did offer to take her equipment out to the car. It was pretty obvious I was into her. I took her bags out and put them in her trunk, and she said thank you and good-bye. I looked into her eyes (dazzling) and I looked at her lips (delicious) and I simply asked if I could kiss her. She said yes. We kissed and I could tell that she liked it. I think she was lonely, even if she was a professional Domme. She asked, as a matter of curiosity if I was going her way. I was not, the exact opposite. Still, she invited me to her home for a drink. I followed her there, and she served us wine, and we sat on the couch, talked and began to make out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
We kissed and fondled and then went to her bedroom. Most of our clothes were off by then. She went down on me. She was very good. And I returned the favor. It seemed only natural to sixty-nine at that point. But soon I was fucking her. I distinctly remember pumping her between her huge breasts. But also I pumped into her for a long time. No anal. Yes, she was a good lover. Very, very good. We talked about some of her experiences. Some rather traumatic experiences when she was in the military. She told me she hadn’t let a man in her bed in a long time. I was honored. Both of us knew this was not going to be ongoing, but we enjoyed each other all night long.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We shared breakfast the next morning, and I went home. I knew we could never develop a real relationship, but she was a very hot memory. I think perhaps I am for her as well. I haven’t seen her since. I did think about looking her up and going for a repeat, but by the time I did, she was not living in my town any longer.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sexual pleasure with a beautiful woman.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it couldn’t turn into more.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Gave me encouragement to do more things like it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would love to see attitudes toward sex more relaxed, and more opportunities explored for mutual pleasure, without obstacles, hindrances, or inhibitions.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excited to find it.
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