What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Boston
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? tech
What’s your current relationship status? widowed
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? 60% straight, 40% gay
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Overseas (Bi) MMF

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2

What was your relationship status at the time? widowed

How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mat (not his real name) and Mimi (not her real name) and I met on a beach in France. They set up next to me and I immediately noticed Mimi’s spectacular body and the absolutely scandalous light yellow, thong-backed micro bikini she was wearing. I noticed that when Mat stripped down he was wearing a pouch-style thong as well. Mimi had just turned 50 and was 5’6″. She had a tiny chest, maybe A cup, a thin and toned body, fantastic legs, an average face, long dark brown hair with streaks of gray, and a small but nicely rounded butt. Mat had just turned 55 and was 5’10” with a pepper sprinkled crew cut. He was very thin, had a swimmer’s type of body, very muscular legs, and awesome abs. His pouch-style thong was also a sight to behold as his cock just *popped*. I’ve always felt that men who wear thongs are probably gay or bisexual. To me, seeing a man in a thong is an invitation to strike up a chat, which was exactly what happened here.

In short, Mimi caught me looking her up and down and whispered something to Mat. Mat nodded his head and she walked over to me and held out her hand. She started speaking to me in French immediately. I’m an American who’d worked for a French telecom company for years so my French was passable. Mimi immediately identified me as an American and switched to English. She called Mat over and they both sat cross-legged on the sand at the edge of my towel. I was wearing board shorts and also crossed my legs so that my raging hard-on would not be visible to these two people I just met. I liked the way Mat’s suntan lotion glistened off his bare torso and the way his cock would bounce around in his thong when he laughed or shifted positions as he sat. I could clearly make out Mimi’s nipples as they poked through her bikini top.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was about noon when they invited me for “le dejeuner” (lunch or light lunch) on their houseboat. I was disappointed that they both covered up before we headed to their boat. During lunch, the wine started flowing, and we had a great assortment of bread, cheeses, and some greens. As a guy who doesn’t drink that much, I was definitely feeling it. They knew that I was feeling it too, and we all laughed about how I was having trouble at the time. They also made fun of my board shorts, but again, it had all been so playful that I didn’t care. Mimi excused herself from the deck and disappeared into the cabin. When she returned in her hand was a sealed plastic bag. She slid the bag across the table and Mat broke into a wide smile. I asked what it was and she told me to take the garment out of the plastic bag. It was a thong kind of like Mat had been wearing on the beach, only this one was a dark navy color, featured a pouch, and was held together with tinier strings. They insisted that I take and keep the garment and that it would suit me.

They offered to help me back to my hotel and suggested that we should meet up for dinner and some clubbing later that evening. They dropped me off at the hotel by 3:30 pm and we’d planned to have dinner at 9 pm. I got showered and dressed and yeah I decided to wear that thong. I had never worn one before. It was tight, and I loved how the string felt up my butt crack, but it was having a hard time keeping my boner down at first.

Mat and I were dressed in standard dinner and club wear. We wore short-sleeved, silken shirts, and dress pants and shoes. We laughed at how similarly we were dressed. Mimi, however, was a knockout. Her makeup was WAY overdone, her hair was pinned up, and she was wearing a tight, red evening gown with slits down the sides and a pair of black, caged sandals with a heel. Her tiny nips poked at the fabric of her dress as they had done earlier. Mimi’s dress had an obscenely low cut in the front and while she didn’t have cleavage per se, the neckline of the dress plunged quite a bit down her tummy. The back of her dress was barely there, it fell right above her ass crack.

We greeted one another with hugs then sat down. Dinner was nice and we had a fun and carefree conversation before we decided to hit the club. Mat wasn’t that into dancing so most of the night was me bumping and grinding with Mimi. She literally forced her body into mine and I could make out Mat sitting on the sidelines intently taking in the show.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At the end of the night, they asked if I would be interested in coming back to their houseboat for a drink. Of course, I would! Mimi situated herself next to me on the couch and Mat sat across from us in a comfortable chair. I remember trying my damnedest not to look down the front of her dress. Her legs certainly looked sexy with those heels on. That’s when Mat interrupted our fun chat and said that Mimi had something to ask me. “Would you like to be with us?” She asked plainly. “Be with you?” I replied in a demure way. “You know, sexually.” “But both of us,” Mat chimed in. “We enjoy the company of 3 if we are able and we think that you are the right man for this task.”

This was a very odd means of seduction, but I told them that I was interested. They both grabbed my hands and led me to the bedroom. They undressed me and I stood there in that super sexy thong. Mimi simply shed her dress and stood there in heels. Mimi told me to undress Mat, and as I did so, Mat and I kissed passionately. It was tough to undress him since he kept pinching my nipples and bending over to suck them. As Mat and I continued to make out, our hands traded cocks back and forth. Mimi squatted on the floor in her heels and watched the show. She had her first gushing orgasm and it sprayed everywhere. She took a break by alternating sucking Mat and I off as we continued to kiss and play with one another’s nipples. I told them that I was close and Mimi insisted on swallowing it all. Mat and Mimi kissed and shared my seed. Then they both kissed me and shared it.

We had a brief pause and they asked if I was done. I said that I could keep going and we got back into it. Mimi asked me to make Mat cum and I did, swallowing it all while my middle finger was halfway up his ass. By this point, I was ready to go again, and as Mat recovered, I fucked Mimi and seeded her. Mat ate her out and before long, he wanted to top me, so I obliged. I had only taken a dick once before and was a bit anxious, but I’d been working my way back up with toys, and his 5″ hardness was up to my then standards. He came in me, and Mimi surprised me by sucking the cum out of my ass.

We finally ended up a sweaty pile of bodies on their bed and we fell asleep. In the darkness, we fumbled through various combinations and continued to fuck through midday the next day. I came 8 times before my output was a dripping mess of cummy body water. It hurt to cum on that last time and yet it felt great beyond belief.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We took a couple of days off. Then I dropped by their boat and they asked if I’d like to see the water. They borrowed a friend’s boat and we hit the seas. I felt kind of sick at first, but eventually, I gained my bearings and the sexy times started again. We carried on for the next two days, I barely left their houseboat once we returned to shore, and finally, I rushed to my hotel to pack up my stuff so that I could head back to Paris to fly back home.

We spoke of doing this again. I’m looking forward to it. My god, they are so dirty and so sexy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Outside of the three of us? Nobody else.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Everything!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’m keeping my eyes out for guys in thongs and sexy wives going forward, that’s for sure.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? NO

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m all in for casual sex as a guy who wants to enjoy it before body parts inevitably stop working in the near future.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it. Well done.

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