What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Boston
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Entrepreneur
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40-50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Pandora’s Box – FMF
How long ago did this hookup happen? Few months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Cat was a friend of a friend to my girlfriend and me. I’d only known her for a few weeks. My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years; she’s a 5’3 fitness teacher and bi-curious (if not bi). Cat is average build, nothing to write home about but she had the free spirit required for a spontaneous threesome, so it worked.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My girlfriend and I had tended to become pretty forward in looking for a female for a threesome because we’d agreed to try it a few months before but never really found the right situation because we wanted it to be spur-of-the-moment.
My girlfriend technically asked Cat at the club while we danced to some music…but make no mistake, I was pulling the strings. My girlfriend is awesome but I still have to do the work…
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My girlfriend’s golden rule was “no penetration”, oral only. Fine with me. I actually tend to enjoy the blowjob more than actual sex because I think I like the dominant nature of it.
Anyway, we planned to head back to our mutual friend’s house because it was comfortable. The two girls jumped right into during the cab ride home. Somehow I convinced them to take turns burying their head in my lap while in the backseat together – I was in the middle. I remember the creepy eye contact I caught briefly from the cab driver, but was the only reason we stopped during the trip back.
Once we got back to our friend’s house, we immediately commandeered the basement bathroom, which is huge. The basement itself was like an apartment and the bathroom as big as a spare bedroom. Both girls instinctively dropped to their knees and all my dreams came true.
They took turns giving me head until my girlfriend allowed me to spend some extra time with Cat. Cat and I 69’d while my girlfriend cheered us on for a few minutes before we returned to the previous set up with both kneeling in front of me.
After about 20 mins, I was on the verge of painting the walls, so I asked “who wants it” and my girlfriend immediately said “Let Cat have it – it tastes so good, you’re gonna love it”. About a half second after those angelic words, I busted in Cat’s mouth and she validated the claim. This was not the first time I heard that about my juice, but it’s awesome to hear that being exchanged between two females.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Cat was cool, so it wasn’t the slightest bit weird after. We tried again a few weeks later but we’d crossed the line a bit by making out with my girlfriend so we had to put the stop to it permanently. Before that second attempt with Cat, we had another similar arrangement to this one which was with the friend who owned this house. She had a serious boyfriend however, so after two minutes, she felt uncomfortable that her boyfriend would not have consented, so we stopped.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Our close friends. They already knew this was wanted, so no surprise. My guy friends were envious.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The simultaneous focus on pleasing me shared by my girlfriend who loves me with a borderline stranger.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I feel like an addict chasing my first high and realize these somewhat harmless fetishes are not a bucket list thing for me. I want more…
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, I’ve always thought casual sex and even some light cheating was healthy.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love reading these stories of real-life, lusty, casual sex and I always want more so I figured I’d contribute. Let us all live through each other and bring more casual sex to the world!
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