What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Education
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Park Sex, Hidden But In Plain Sight

How long ago did this hookup happen? About 4 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife is a mature curvy short brunette with shocking blue eyes and a yummy ass. He is Latino, about 43 years of age, about 5’9″, and 190 pounds. My wife loves olive complexioned Latino men. We actually knew him from his family from many years before, but he and I started chatting on a swingers site. He actually admitted to meeting us before and I was cool with it. I just didn’t tell my wife to see what kind of reaction she’d give. When it was revealed, her reaction was priceless. However, it didn’t stop her from having a go at him. He was always a gentleman through our previous meetings.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Before the actual MFM, we met him at a bar which led to a full-on make-out session at a nearby park. The night of our MFM, our daughter was having her 19th birthday party at the house. He came by. I suggested we three go have fun and everyone agreed. Things were winding down at the party so we snuck off with a blanket to the nearby park by our house. We made it to the park. The atmosphere was very surreal. There was a low thick fog that made visibility somewhat low.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we got to the park, we walked a bit to an area that could be seen in the day, but not at all during the foggy night. We laid down our blanket with us men taking off our shirts, shoes, and shorts. She had on a provocative black strapless dress which came off in a heartbeat. We laid her down in the middle of us and proceeded to kiss and lick her breasts while fingering her pussy. She then took turns on both of us sucking our cocks. I then told him that he had the first honors to pump her cunt. There was no disagreement there as he slid into her hungry hole. He started slowly telling her how tight she felt. He then sped his pace up. She was loving this as evidenced by her lustful moans. It was dark, but I did get to watch his dick go in and out of her which just made me harder. He kept going at a rapid pace, but then he jumped off of her saying it was my turn. I jumped on her like a wino wanting ripple and started to ram myself into her. We took our turns a couple more times. Then we went for our last go round. He was a maniac. He was on top ramming her and I thought that he was going to empty his warm juice into her. Just as you could tell that he couldn’t take anymore, he disengaged from her, squatting down while jacking himself and releasing his fluid on the grass. I looked at him in disbelief, but then inserted myself into her, slamming my cock deep inside before giving her the warm liquid that she craved. We then just laid there for a brief time and laughed a little. Then we got dressed and walked him to his car where they shared a very intimate kiss. My wife said he was a great lover. She was disappointed that he didn’t shoot his cum in her. We met him a few times more.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met him a few times more. It was our second MFM. I did start to feel a little jealous at first, but it went away quickly. Our second meet with him, he made her climax as she rode him. He did cum in her many times on other meets. He said she was the best he’d ever had and I agree. We are cool with him. I’m sure my wife would have had us meet him more, but our schedules don’t mix. It’s too bad! He’s a decent guy!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few close friends. They were blown away, but loved it!

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I wanted to see my wife with another man. It was scorching! It’s brought us closer.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No complaints here.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Well, we do swing on occasion as a hobby and added fun!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It lead to us swinging.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s great! We’ve done more MFMs and even swapped on occasion.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great! Love to hear other’s stories!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!