What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Colorado
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Enviro
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1


How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Work contact. Had met at several trainings and conference. One conference that included a dance we hit it off. Talked and danced all night. Shared a brief kiss at the end of the night. Both of us had feelings but were not sure where to take these feeling. Although a hook after the dance was possible the timing was not right. She was 17 years older than me. After the conference, we emailed a lot. We both wanted it to happen but this allowed us to get to know each other better. We made plans to met up three months later.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met in a small town and drove out to the country and parked. She drove a Nissan Pathfinder. We kissed and talked for 30 minutes. The kissing got more passionate which led to petting over the clothes. I undid her pants and rubbered her through her panties. This led to us getting the back of the pathfinder. More kissing and clothes removal. She sucked me for a while. I laid her down and entered her in missionary position. She was tight and dry. I teased her with my cock and she got going. We got a good rhythm. I came deep in her.

We talked after we finished. I watched my cum run out of her vagina. She cleaned up and we talked some more.

I went down on her and she had a big orgasm. She got me hard and got on top. She was now very wet. We fucked very hard she came again and I unloaded a second load of cum.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We still talk but could never make a hookup work again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Felt like I was dating again

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing else but a few kisses happened

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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