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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Financial Advisor
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40-50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

A Patriotic 4th of July

How long ago did this hookup happen? Summer 2012

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a blonde girl with a British accent, slim waist, very nice lips, and deep blue eyes. She was very fit but mainly I kept thinking her face was adorable.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The day was the 4th of July in Scottsdale, AZ and my friends and I just flew in that day to meet up with others and head to a pool party. The W Hotel was the location and the atmosphere was great. We were all drinking, swimming and fooling around.

Towards the end of the afternoon my jet lag and alcohol was catching up to me. I was nearly about to leave when I walked by the dance floor when a this blonde girl with pink sunglasses said “Hey there” and started to dance with me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In true clubbing fashion we got a little frisky dancing in front of the dj booth, it then moved into one of the cabanas for a little make out session. About that time my friends were ready to go back to my buddies apartment, she agreed to come. We may have been made fun of a little for smooching in the back of the car but we just rolled with it.

When we got inside the apartment when the fellas forgot to pick up a few things at the convenient store and left us alone. She pushed my up against a wall and shoved her tongue in my mouth. I was a little intimidated but very turned on by the way she took control. She then got on her knees and slowly slid her hands down my chest and started undoing my swim shorts.

She wrapped her lips around my rather engorged erection and proceeded to give me one of the best blow jobs of my life. It was so good that my leg began to twitch with pure pleasure. I was so close to blowing my load when we both heard the guys put the key in the door and come back into the apartment, ugh what timing!

Even though I didn’t hit my climax it was probably best for her, I felt like I was going to pop off so hard I might have taken her eye out! And as someone who appreciates irony I find it very amusing that a British girl sucked my dick on the 4th of July, but I was polite enough not to bring that fact up.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt fine about it, I hope she did as well. We both snuggled on the couch and I borrowed the car to take her back to her place the next morning. After that my friends and I hoped in a rental SUV and headed to Vegas on the second part of our trip…. but that story will be shared another time!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Everyone on the trip

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? One of the best blow jobs of my life

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t get to orgasm

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex or sex with others I know is very important to me

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!