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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? free spirit

Perfect Hook-Up

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was mid 40s or older, didn’t ask because he looked so good. Approx. 5’10”, short dark hair, nice tan, smooth muscular chest, huge arms, military tattoos on biceps, confident attitude, originally from NC but lives in SC, has teenage kids, been married for 20+ years with a ‘don’t ask don’t tell’ arrangement & in town helping a recruiter.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I live close to the beach & get up early on Sunday mornings to go for a run. I’d just finished & doing a cool down when he jogged by & made eye contact. I was wearing a light pink sports bra with matching compression shorts. He was shirtless & wearing gray shorts.

He circled back, stopped & acted like he was stretching his legs. He noticed me looking & flexed his huge arms. He had the typical ‘bad boy’ look that I like. I looked him in the eyes & mouthed “WOW,” then pretended to look at my Apple Watch. He walked toward me while giving the ‘I’m mentally undressing you’ stare.

He started out with compliments. I gave him a few compliment in return. He said I looked ‘innocent’. I replied, “Looks can be deceiving, I’m actually pretty naughty.” For the next few minutes, we shared a few things about ourselves. Our conversation became heated & he said he was staying at a motel a few blocks away. I winked & gave him a smile to show I was interested. In a bold move, he squeezed my ass & asked if I’d like to fuck. I check the time & had a few hours before I had to meet dad at mass. I said ‘sure.’ We jogged there.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was a classic one level motel with a flat roof. He opened the door & gave my ass a hard smack, which I enjoyed. The room was clean but everything looked ‘dated’. I could tell by his casual behavior he’d done this many times. He took off his shoes & shorts then dug a gold packaged condom from his suitcase. I removed my shoes & shorts. I left my sports bra on because it’s a pain to get on & off. I was glad things were moving along quickly. He put the condom on & I noticed he was neatly groomed & his cock was thick & one of the biggest I’d seen. Thankfully, he was already hard because I didn’t want to give head on a sweaty cock.

I sat on the edge of the bed with my legs open. He walked up & rammed his thick cock inside me fast & hard. I was already wet so it went in easily. The sensation of his thick cock stretching me felt amazing! I could tell this wasn’t going to be a ‘quickie’ by the way he started fucking me deep & HARD. His aggressive pace was hitting my ‘spot’ & making me cum. I was enjoying & moved my legs over his shoulders (I was still wearing my pink ‘no show’ socks LOL). By now, he’d gotten me so wet, there was a loud wet smacking sound each time he slammed into me.

He picked me up, bent me over, put on a fresh condom, grabbed my hips, pulled me on his cock & fucked me hard. I started gushing more & told him I was about to finish. His hands clamped down on my ass tight & he started going faster & harder. OMG! He fucked me into an amazing orgasm. As I was getting off, he rammed his cock as far as it would go deep inside me. I felt him swell & pulse inside me. When he finished, I noticed the condom was swollen like a balloon with his cum. Thankfully, he used a name brand condom & it didn’t pop. I’m on BC but I’d rather not be forced into using a ‘motel’ bathroom.

I was glad there wasn’t an awkward moment while we put on our clothes. We just both talked about how good things went. I checked the time & it had been a fun & intense 30 minutes but I also needed to get going. I jumped up & straddled him. He gave my ass a tight squeeze & held me in the air while we kissed. We both knew this was a ‘one time’ hook-up, so neither of us pursued contact info. He said, “You’re the perfect hook-up.” I thanked him & left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I got home with plenty of time to shower, get dressed, attend mass with dad then lunch afterward.

My BF had to work & Dad’s friends came over to watch a ball game. For the rest of the day, I hung out by the pool, fixed snacks & drinks for everyone.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My BF. He’s cool. He thought it was a hot experience.
My BFF Beck. She liked it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Amazing sex with a hot guy I’d just met. He gave me an orgasm too.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was all GOOD! Nothing bad.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I enjoy casual sex & I wish more people would be open to it. I enjoy having sex with different people & I’m good friends with most. I believe good friends can experience sex together & still remain friends. That’s why my BF & I are a good match.

I also enjoy the excitement of meeting a hot guy & having casual sex him. I enjoyed this hook-up. We were both adults having great sex & went separate ways afterward. I think that’s how it should be.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I noticed in the mirror when I got out of the shower, I had two bruises on each side of lower back were his thumbs were pressing tight during doggie. LOL
The guy told me his name when we first met but I could tell he’d made it up. It didn’t bother me because I’ve done that a few times too. LOL
He mentioned he was leaving the next day. I’m sure that was a lie too. LOL

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish more people would be open to casual sex.

My BFF Beck’s boyfriend believes monogamy is the only way in a relationship. That’s why she can’t let him know when she has casual sex. It shouldn’t be like that.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it. There’s a lot of people having casual sex & I like reading their stories.

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