What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 66
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Montville, Ohio 44064
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Marketing and Sales
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Sexual and Emotional Slut
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 44
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month agao
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I would say they look sensual, but not particularly pretty, what I call positive plain. I had met them on OKC and they were also on Fetlife. We met at a restaurant. We were curious about each other mentally and thus physically. She is very open and has been a slut all her life. For that matterm so have I, though prior to the internet there were emotional connections of some duration first.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met in a restaurant and went to her home. At the restaurant I simply asked “So, would you like to play?” We discussed interests: anything oral, genital and anal, spanking, funishment and humiliation.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Oral, genital (but it was hard to get in her cunt), anal (which was surprisingly easy, even with a vibtrator up her cunt. She loved it all, and enjoyed the buzzing (oral), anailingus and assfucking, as did I. I came in her asshole, asked her about ass-to-mouth, but she demurred. She was great. We took some pics which I posted with her permission.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt elated the next day and said so in email. I expect more such hookups and think how to make them happen with my very taxed schedule.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few people, mainly about how I was surprised to have anal sex be easier than vaginal sex.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? hard to say – the sex and the connection just potentiated each other
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? that in the lull, her piano proved to need work, so I couldn’t idly plink.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Absolutely not.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I would love it is she lived closer and we could get together more readily. 2 hours is a bit of a drive.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Since I often tend to “slut myself into relationships”, I have generally been very happy with casual sex. I do take the time to get to know my partners. I mean why waste all that they bring to the table. It’s just that I like to lead with sex, so that I know that is part of the package.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea!
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