What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Burgos, Spain
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? IT Technician
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Naïve
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Phantasy came true
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s average height, but very athletic, broad shoulders, just the way I like. Dark-brown hair and eyes, not particularly handsome, but he has that alpha-male look and attitude that melt me every time I see him. His ass is not that nice, but he seems to be pretty well endowed down under (sometimes I would take stealth looks and he seemed to be having a hard-on while talking to me, which made me totally lose the train of the conversation and begin imagining things…) It made me horny to imagine that he was really big, but also a bit concerned, because I was practically a virgin back then; I had had several hook-ups, even went out with a guy for a while and we did get laid, but he never managed to get it completely erect and I never managed to get relaxed enough so that he could penetrate, so he only entered the tip. I used to enjoy that, anyway, but never had an orgasm with him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had met a few weeks before and I instantly felt attracted to him. He’s married and he has a little child, but I couldn’t help wanting him; besides, sometimes it seemed he was into me, too: he would talk to me more than anybody else, look at me deeply in the eyes with short looks to my lips or body, and every time we met he would hug me a little bit tighter than socially accepted for a “just friends” relationship. Besides, he had also hinted the possibility of getting together for drinks after work.
I don’t consider myself very attractive: people say that I look pretty in my light brown garçon hair, and my eyes are big and light-colored; however, I’m rather short and not very curvy, so I didn’t know what to wear so that we would pay attention to me. That night I was wearing a very short dress which suits me just fine; I’m very thin and almost flat-breasted, so at least I could show some leg.
We happened to get to the bar almost at the same time. I was waiting for my friends to go in together and he had just parked his car, although he hadn’t seen me and he was walking to the building next door. “Not joining us today?” I asked him in loud voice before he could get too far to hear me. “I was just going up to water the plants at my friend’s place while he’s on holidays”. Then he smiled slyly and asked me if I’d like to go up until my friends arrived. Too evident an invitation for a married man, but also too tempting, so I decided to oblige.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once in the apartment, he offered me a drink, but I was too nervous and I just looked over the books and CD’s while he watered the plants… without realising him sneaking up behind me and grabbing me from the waist. There was a mirror in front of me and I could see his sly smile again. He was so close I could feel his bulge against my ass while he leaned over to kiss my neck. I turned around and kissed him on the lips, letting him slide his tongue inside my mouth and lick mine. I hadn’t kissed anybody in months, mostly because there wasn’t anybody I really liked. I hugged him tight and kissed him passionately.
Suddenly he pulled my dress up, grabbed my ass, lifted me in the air and sat me on a table. We kept on making out, but now his bulge was rubbing my crotch instead of my ass, which made me very hot. I spread my legs and hugged his ass with them, letting him rub as much as he wanted and moving along with him.
When I was practically on fire, he took me down from the table, made me lean on the wall and slid one of his fingers underneath my dress and my panties. My pussy was really wet and the way he stroke me made me pant with pleasure. At first he just caressed my lips softly, but after a few minutes he included my clitty in his path, making me moan and move my hips back and forth, until he finally went inside of me little by little.
So much arousal was making me dizzy and I had to sit on a chair; he took another one, sat in front of me, pulled down my panties and took off his pants and underwear. He was big, as big as in my wildest dreams. He put his chair just in front of mine, my legs over his and his dick on my vagina, holding it in his hand to rub it around my lips and my clitty, giving me uncountable pleasure, not seeming to be trying to penetrate, although I was sure that moment would arrive. I was wondering whether I wanted my first time to be with him. The answer was yes, although I’d rather not do in on a chair. Nevertheless, what I really didn’t want is that he found out that I was a virgin.
Still, it felt so good when he started going inside of me, so I didn’t say anything. The alarms went off when he reached my hymen. I moved away from him and began jacking him off, but he lifted me in the air and sat me astride on his dick. I should have known I wasn’t going to get away with that, so I got off him, kneeled down and put his dick in my mouth.
The first blowjob in my life… and on a first date, just trying not to appear too amateurish. His dick is very wet and it tastes a bit strong, but not bad, and it’s exciting to have him in my mouth, to control him and feel how much pleasure I’m giving him. Now it’s him who’s moaning while he strokes my hair and my neck. I realise he gets even hornier if I look up to him, so I do that once in a while. My tongue surrounds the head of his dick while I use my hands to rub it… until he makes me stand up, kisses me lustfully and takes off my dress and my bra. He strokes my breasts, kisses them and gently chews on my nipples while playing with my clitty. He takes my hand, walks me to the sofa and sits down. I could choose whether to finish the blowjob or ride him, and I chose the first option: I kneel down beside him and continue were I had left off, although it doesn’t take much longer. His body shudders and he fills my mouth with cum. At first I felt as if I was going to be sick, but then I realised it wasn’t that bad: it was gooey and warm, but the flavour was nice and it felt exciting, so I swallowed it and kept on sucking him until he squirted a bit more and began getting back to normal.
I thought that was it (and felt a bit disappointed, since we had had an orgasm, but I hadn’t), but he sat me on his lap, opened up my legs and went back to rubbing my pussy, circling gently around my clitty. When he starts fingering me, I’m as wet as can be and he can easily do me with two fingers at the same time. He goes as deep as possible and uses his fingertips to push up and back inside of me, as if he was digging, and I begin to moan again, although louder. The feeling is very powerful. He takes turns between the fingertips thing and fingering me faster and faster, stronger and stronger. I hold on to him because I’m losing control of myself, shuddering and whining out loud. I hadn’t realised, but he was doing me with four fingers at the same time, almost the whole hand, and he takes them out completely dripping with my fluids, which he spreads on my belly and breast while he kisses me tenderly.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My first orgasm, on a first date, with a guy I practically didn’t know… and whom I hope I’ll date again and finally have a full sexual intercourse. We went down to the bar, but we had clearly lost sense of time: my friends were not there anymore (at least they hadn’t seen me with him, they must have thought I couldn’t make it).
The good part is that we exchanged numbers, so there was a change that it wasn’t just a one-night stand. Clearly, married and with a child, we won’t be having a romantic affair, but I’ll be happy to be his lover. He gave the best time of my life that night… and I wanted more.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody knows about this.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He gave me my first orgasm.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? In retrospect, I think I should have let him fuck me.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Totally, I was somewhat against casual sex, now I’m completely in favour. Everyone should try it once in a while… with someone you like and feel confident with.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We still hook up from time to time… and it’s still so good… every time.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think we should be more open-minded and less conservative about this, consider sex as an enjoyment which one can have with or without love.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s fun. I have always wanted to share my experience, but I didn’t want to lose him because of it.
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