What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Asheville
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Finance
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Pick Up on a Country Road

How long ago did this hookup happen? Around 6 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a petite brunette around 25 with a hot body. Tight ass, nice b cup tits. She was leaving a public swimming pool and needed a ride. Didn’t know her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At the time I had a condo in Blowing Rock and a house in Asheville. I worked in Blowing Rock during the week and returned to Asheville on the weekends. I was driving back on a scenic road in no hurry when I passed this hot girl hitchhiking. I stopped and picked her up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She told me she had gone to a public campground pool with her friends and decided she wanted to go visit her brother. Her friends didn’t want to leave so she decided to try to get a ride. She was wearing a tee shirt over her swimsuit, it was short so I had a good view of her body. We talked for a while and she would kind of spread her legs a little teasing me. I was really horny so I just said why don’t you show me more, figured I didn’t have anything to lose. She took off her shirt revealing a really hot body. I asked her if I could touch her and she said ok. I played with her tits, then put my hand between her legs and fingered her pussy. She was getting wet and I suggested we find a place to pull over. I found a side road and a place to pull over where the car couldn’t be seen from the road. We got out of the car and went to the back seat and she got in first and I stood at the door while she pulled my cock out and started sucking as I played with her tits. After that, I took off her suit and placed in on her knees and fucked her hard doggie style. We switched positions and she rode me cowgirl style until we both came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked more and I figured out she was having a hard time. She had just moved back from Charlotte where she had worked as a dancer. I felt sorry for her and gave her some cash. It turned out that her brother was in jail and she could only visit him that day so that’s why she left without a ride. We talked about meeting again and getting a hotel room, but by the time I got around to calling her, number had been changed.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I later told one of my best friends, I said if it hadn’t happened to me I would have thought it was a story from Penthouse letters

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was such a random hot experience with a beautiful younger woman

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? There was some guy running a tractor in a nearby field and I worried about getting caught by him. Also fucking in a car is never easy.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, I have always had a positive view of casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? That sometimes fantasies come true!

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Wish more people were more open about casual sex, same sex experience, swinging etc.,,, over the years I have found that it’s far more common then society admits.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great work.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!