What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Spain
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Plan B

How long ago did this hookup happen? 13

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We meet at a party in the outskirts of Barcelona. She was a beautiful French girl, about my age, 25, named M. Around 175 cm tall, nice ass, long legs, brunette with long hair, full lips, fair skin. She was studying to become a Doctor. I was abroad too and I had a Spanish girlfriend at the time but I wasn’t really in love with her anymore, neither was she. The party was amazing and I was having the time of my life with my friends, drinking, dancing and smoking joints. Two days later I had to leave Spain and we were all celebrating a fantastic year of fun. Leaving Spain meant that I had to leave my girlfriend behind and I couldn’t care the less, I was determined to make the most out of my last hours on Spanish soil. When the party started to fade away and people started to leave, I saw her, liked her and immediately I knew I wanted to fuck her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well, that’s a bit embarrassing because she was trying hard to hook up this acquaintance of mine but he made very clear he wasn’t interested. To be honest, the guy was very handsome and had all kind of girls gravitating around him, but I guess he was either gay or in a relationship. I don’t remember the words, I actually think that there wasn’t much talk involved but it was clear she wanted to be banged that night. Her entire body language was screaming for sex. She asked the guy, the guy laughed and said no with his head. That happened when I was right front of them and I suggested her to go to my place. With my great surprise, she agreed, opting for me, plan B.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I don’t remember how we made it to my place…all I know is that we kept drinking and smoking hash all the way down to my flat. She was rolling joint after joint and liked her for that even more. She was fun and my dick was hard already in the anticipation of a night of sex. My 2 flatmates were away the whole weekend, which turned out perfectly. She went straight to the toilet and took a shower. I’ll always remember the moment she came out of the toilet completely naked. Her confidence and sexual appeal just blew my mind away. I’d say she was the kind of girl that I’d consider (at least back then) out of my league. The kind of girl that makes you nervous be around because all you can think of is sex. But by the time, with the help of drugs and alcohol, I wasn’t intimidated at all.
I got naked and she started sucking my cock with her full mouth, with me standing by the bed and her on the bed and on her knees. I love to have my cock sucked, especially in a hookup situation, it makes me feel dominant and wanted. As a good French girl, she had worn some good fragrance that night, that I had been smelling for quite some time at that point. The fragrance and her French accent just added to this amazing experience. Due to the hashish, my senses were on 15 on a scale of 10! I stopped her and kissed her passionately, tasting her hashish-sweet mouth. Her tongue felt like she was sucking my brains out.
I decided to return the favour and went down on her. She wasn’t shaved but her pussy had just the right amount of hair, one of the juiciest pussy I’ve ever tasted. I loved the texture and colour of her bush, it was delicate like velvet and matched her black hair. She was very loud while I was giving her oral, which was a big turn on. I started fingering her first with one finger than with two while licking her clitoris until she exploded in pleasure, with me admiring her full breasts rocking side by side. What a view! By that time my dick was massive and the alcohol and hash had taken me to a very confident place. I knew I was going to fuck her for a very long time. She asked me if I had a condom, which I had, gave it to her and with a bit of struggle we managed to put it on. I licked her juicy pussy a little bit more but she made clear that she wanted to be on top of me and take my dick inside of her. With her on top of my, I hugged her and lost myself in the smell of her hair, in the taste of her mouth, licking her beautiful boobs and calling her a whore, a slut and God know what more. She loved it and talked dirty back, with some Italian words she said that she loved to fuck, loved dicks and loved to have dicks inside of her. At some point the leant back, maintaining the balance with one hand and touching herself with the other, while I was trying to coordinate my thrusts with her wild movements. She came again loud and at that point, I exploded. I wished I wasn’t wearing a condom to feel that 100%, but still, I was happy I was wearing one.
We took a break and she rolled another joint. We chatted a bit, she mentioned she used to have an Italian boyfriend with a massive dick, I asked her how she felt about mine and she said that we the men are obsessed with that and that we see too many porn movies.
After a while, I was hard again and we started to make out. She put herself in the doggy style and gave me green light to pound her from behind. Her ass was amazing like her whole body, not skinny, not fat but the right balance of flesh to fuck with great joy. She started to scream again. I loved it. I loved her ass, her long, soft dark hair on her shoulders. I spanked her gently. What had started with a gentle penetration became animal pounding and we continued until we could. The tiredness, the hour and the intoxicating substances finally took a toll on us and we ended up separate on the two sides of the bed, chatting casually, with no cuddling involved. Then we moved to the couch and there we cuddled a bit, cracked some jokes and said nice things to each other until she left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was kind of weird. On one side, I felt extremely good, she left me in a fog of sultry sexual pleasure for days. On the other, I met my girlfriend the next day and felt bad about it, but still happy I fucked that French girl the night before. I have hade my good amount of hookups before getting married but this was definitely the best I have ever had. It brings me back to a very naif and special moment of my life. Sometimes I still think of her and jerk off to this fantasy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Power / Dominance, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. He knew I was in a relationship and I was happy for myself.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Her body, her smell, her taste, the fact that she came out of the toilet completely naked. I was her “plan B” but it turned out to be a great experience of casual sex for me.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing bad about it. As a married man now, sometimes I think about how good casual sex can be…my masculine ego would still like to fuck other women in casual contexts, but I don’t want to hurt my wife.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t know….all I can think of now is that every man that is after a good sexual experience should try French girls. They generally have a very good relationship with their own sexuality and that impacts positively on the sexual intercourses. Fucking French girls is very liberating!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Yes, I wish I had fucked her more than once.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is great and there’s still a lot of stigmas attached to it. Casual sex is necessary to understand what you like and what you don’t. I think society and education should talk openly about human beings as sexual beings, and even invite people to explore their sexual desires. Sex is normal, sex is good, sex is great.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I’m an avid reader of the crazy stories that can be found here! Thumbs up!

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