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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Plane Crush

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met in a plane. I saw there was a guy looking at me. I liked him as well and when we were getting off the plane he said hi and we started talking. I gave him my number and next day we went out

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were out and I knew he likes me a lot. He was Hispanic and I’m ginger and white so I was exotic to him. He wanted to come home with me cause he knew I live alone so I agreed

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We did vaginal sex and he gave me oral and asked me to do it to him as well but I refused. He also wanted to do anal but it seemed awkward to me since I didn’t know him so I refused that as well.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I thought were going to meet again cause he was staying in the city only for a few days but when he left my flat the next day I decided I’m not going to meet him. I was thinking that it was a nice experience, everything was going smoothly but I was imagining to spend that night and do those things with a different person.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel more desirable, I was feeling lonely, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends. They said I’m doing bullshit cause I’m being sad from my previous relationship

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I don’t like him enough. I don’t like to have sex with people I’m not in love with

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sexual satisfaction

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He was licking my body too much and it was disgusting

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m tired of serious relationship and I’m not willing to stop having sex

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting

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