What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Attorney
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 8

Playboy Mansion East

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last weekend

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had sex with multiple women during a house party held in a mini-mansion. The women I had sex with were all in their 40’s, attractive and I knew none of them before the party, as I met them all that evening.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My girlfriend and I had plans to have sex with another couple that night, but the female got sick and they had to cancel. Due to my excellent powers of written communication and persuasion, I got us invited at the last minute to the A-ticket house party of the season.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Over 100 people were at the party, mostly 30’s and 40’s. 95% of the women were insanely hot. 25% of the women were dressed in outfits that would make a stripper blush. Open bar, catered food, DJ, dance floor, smoke machine, strobe lights, orgy rooms upstairs. I saw an incredible amount of girl/girl sex, including two hot tan blondes, one had a huge black strap-on cock fucking the other one. Girl/girl 69, girl/girl orgies, BDSM demonstrations, naked women on the dance floor, at the bar, standing in line for the bathroom. Sexual play and sexual activity going on in every room and in every hall. Threeways, fourways, orgies. You name it, I saw it. My girlfriend and I ended up in an orgy room with 6 other couples. Lots of oral sex, girl/girl sex, and vaginal intercourse. I also did 69 with one girl, went down on two girls, had two girls go down on me at the same time, received oral from four girls. Fun time!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt like I won the lottery as I had never been to a house party before and this one rocked. I have never been around so many hot naked women who were all having sex. It was an amazing experience.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends at the gym. They think I am a stud.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Are you kidding? Every heterosexual man’s dream is to be invited to a house party like the one we attended. The women looked like movie starlets. There were naked, friendly, horny young women with perfect bodies everywhere. I had sex with as many of them as could fit in the orgy room.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I had a little bit of trouble staying hard with all those naked people in one room. So did all the other dudes.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Makes me want to attend more house parties.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I felt like I had won the lottery by being invited to this amazing party. It was one of the wildest nights of my life.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Love it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!