What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Netherlands
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Designer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none so far, first one 😉
Playing Ball with Team USA
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was just out of a 6 year relationship, being used to the regular sex being single was hard. My ex suggested we should keep the physical part of our relationship alive which I happily agreed to. When he then canceled on me for the third time leaving we without sex for a month I was furious – I needed to fuck something right now – and created a tinder account. Within only a few moments, a young 20-year-old American popped up, a bit young for my taste – I like them older – but intrigued by his cute smile, size 1,97 cm and the fact that he was a professional player for Team USA in a ball sport I pushed the like button.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We matched quickly and hit it off right from the start, he was funny and quick with his words, which I like. He made it clear that he was only looking for a one time hook up since he was in the area to train for a big tournament and did not have a lot of free time without being blunt or disrespectful. I quickly contemplated my options; he was not from around here, not interested in anything else than just a hookup and would be gone within days. It was almost too perfect and exactly what I was looking for. Even if the sex would be bad, I figured it would at least still be a funny story to share with my friends about my first tinder adventure with Team USA.
Since, neither of us were living alone and we both never had sex in a car before we figured we would give it a try. We arranged to meet that same day in the evening, just 10 hours after we initially matched. He had to sneak away and had his buddies cover for him since they actually had a curfew. I couldn’t believe I was going to have sex with a guy who had a curfew haha but was more than happy that he was willing to risk getting into trouble for me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I picked a place in a dense forest area, figuring that would at least give us some privacy. We shared a quick “hi, how are you,” while I got in his car. I instigated him to find an even more secluded spot up the trail and he cheekily asked me if I wanted to suck his dick while he drove, like in the movie The Wolf of Wall Street. I was hesitant, being only in his car for not more than two minutes, I was still very nervous and gave him a ‘we’ll see’ brushing the idea off, afraid of not knowing what was down his pants. Boy, was I wrong when I found out what was down there.
Within a few moments, we had found a good spot, I got out of the car and he was trying to put the seats in the back down to create more space. Which to me made no sense – we were going to have sex in a car right?! Then let’s have sex in a car and not some sort of space created by putting all of the ‘car parts’ down. He seemed a bit nervous since the seats would not go down completely, him being a tad nervous looking calmed me down completely and I told him to put the seats back up and join me outside of the car.
We started kissing without exchanging another word. He did not waste any time and grabbed my ass with his big hands, slipped up my dress and started fingering me almost straight away. I didn’t want to slip my hands down his pants immediately since it was only 4°C out and my hands were as cold as ice so I tried to warm them on other parts of his body. After a while, we moved into the car, having gained some heat from his body I pulled his sweats down a bit, expecting something to pop up. Confused when nothing popped out, I looked down only to see him having to push down his pants even further to have this glorious big dick pop up – I couldn’t believe my eyes.
Here I was only hours after installing tinder laying my eyes on this gorgeous dick, freshly showered with a lovely faint musky dick smell. Not only was it longer than I was used to, it was perfectly straight and had the same girth from the bottom all the way to the top. Since it was so fat, it had this softness while still being rock hard which made for a great blowjob.
After slowly teasing and blowing him for a while, he put on a condom joking that they never show ‘that part’ in the movies. I removed my panties while reminding him about American Pie where they do. With me, wearing stay-ups and a dress, I could keep everything else on while we started slowly fucking with me on top of him. With him being so big, I could not move all the way up and down his dick without me slamming my head into the roof of the car so he decided to switch positions to get some more movement.
He opened the car door got out and asked me to lean out as far as I could on all fours – with doggy being my favorite position I happily obliged. Now being able to feel the full length and girth of his penis, I did not know what was happening, he was so big. He started off slowly while I tried to moan off him stretching me the way he did. Normally, you always feel the initial stretch once guys put their dicks in you completely, but after a few thrusts its loosens up – now it didn’t, every thrust was so intense, filling me up like it was the first thrust all over and over again. He seemed to enjoy my moans and started pounding me harder. I started to lose control over my body moaning more intensely, which only seemed to encourage him to go faster grabbing me harder pulling me back hard with his big hand over my throat. That only made me lose more control over my body, at a certain point, I let him slip out on purpose, afraid that I would squirt all over his car. I figured giving him an in-between blowjob would give me a chance to recoup. Just at the moment, when I let him slip out of my mouth to gasp a quick breath before kicking it up a notch, he came – perfectly in between me, him and the car without spilling on any of it which made us both laugh. After him orgasming, he looked up wide eyed in surprise and said, “whoa you’re really good at this,” which was a huge confidence boost just coming out of a long monogamous relationship.
He did not show any intent of getting me off and after receiving such a fulfilling pounding, I was quite done myself – in the past I would have straddled any other dude with my thighs if they would try to get away before giving me an orgasm, but I felt very satisfied.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We chatted briefly in the car about his sporting career with the national team after which I got out so he could get back quickly, possibly even in time to make his curfew. Once I had gotten home I send him one of the dumbest text ever (something about his dick being too big for the condom asking which brand he had) – I could have asked him if he make it back ok without being caught but I simply could not think of such thing at the time which I totally blame on him fucking my brain out haha, seen the content of the text I don’t blame him for not responding.
The next day, I could still feel his dick, which wasn’t that strange with him being so big. I felt good and confident. Although I was kind of bummed out that I would never see him and his glorious dick again, I would have loved to suck his dick another time around. But overall I felt relaxed getting my ex pounded out of my system along with all the sexual tension. Bit bruised in the knee area but nothing that won’t heal up within a few days =)
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends – who thought it was hilarious, me being on tinder for just a few hours meeting a professional athlete with this enormous dick. The timing was perfect.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Definitely the surprise of the size of his dick. If his dick wasn’t so fulfilling I think the whole experience would have been quite a bummer with me not orgasming and him not seeming to care if I did or not.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The time schedule, we both knew there wasn’t a lot of time with him being on a tight schedule so be both were quite hasty trying not to waste any time. Also the fact that I probably will never see him again, I wouldn’t mind running into him and enjoy his cock once again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I was very nervous since I had never had sex with someone I knew only so briefly, let alone sober. I would have loved to have a beer before to take a bit of the nerves away but since I had to drive to our meeting point I couldn’t. I probably also expected it to be a bigger deal but it was a nice experience and now I would definitely be up for it with someone close to home.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? My friends named me Captain Penis.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I always tried to encouraged my girlfriends to at least try it once if they would bring it up – not letting them get influenced by society to much. Where girls are considered sluts and talked down for sleeping around and guys are praised by their ‘accomplishments’. We’re all just humans and we have sex cravings just like guys do. Now having experienced a hookup with a total stranger myself I am already looking forward to my next experience.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Incredible project – great way to gather data in a controlled setting by means of using the forms. For me, it was a great way to also commemorate this story and reflect on the whole experience which is quite healthy in my opinion.
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