What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How long ago did this hookup happen? 12
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Ann was a female friend I met freshman year of college. I met her through mutual friends, and we found out that we had a lot in common and had similar personalities. We became really good friends, but she was in a relationship at the time, so I never tried to have a relationship at that time. She was about 5’8″ smaller B cup breasts, reddish brown hair. She was pretty open about her sexuality and her hook ups with her current boyfriend. Also was fascinated by balls, and said how much she loved playing with them
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began in her dorm room. We were both into video games and she had an old Playstation 2 in her room. We would take turns playing an older game, and swap off when we died. At the time of the hookup, I was lying on my stomach on her bed playing, while she was sitting in a chair next to the bed. I was wearing athletic shorts and in the middle of playing felt a hand rub my balls. Instantly stopped playing and spun around, to see her laughing and saying that she finally touched my balls. I laughed backed, asking if it was good for her. She said it was great, and went back to typing something on her computer. I laid back down, distracted, but kept playing. After a few more minutes of playing, I felt her hand creep back into my shorts, but pretended I didn’t, and she grabbed my balls again, but for longer. I looked at her again, and she quickly pulled her hand out. At this point I jumped out of the bed, and stood up in front of the chair she was sitting in. As I reached down, and hooked my thumbs in the bands of my shorts and boxers, I said, “I’m happy to let you keep playing, but I’d like to get something out of it in return.” I dropped my shorts to the ground, and saw the shocked and excited look on her face.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? With my shorts around my ankles, she reached over and gently started massaging my balls. My cock hardened almost instantly. I remember looking down at her and asking if this was it or if I would get anything out of it. She asked what I wanted. I reached down and started rubbing her breasts through her shirt. I remember her pulling her shirt off, there was no bra underneath, and then with both hands one massaging my balls and the other my shaft. I told her to slow down or it would be over too soon. She stood up and we started making out for a minute, during that time I reached down and was rubbing her butt through her pants. I grabbed the band of her pants to pull them down, but she quickly grabbed my hands to stop me. I started kissing down her neck and started licking and sucking on her breasts and nipples. I then slowly slid a hand down her stomach into her underwear and started rubbing her pussy. She moaned again, and she dropped her pants to the ground. We eventually made the way to her bed where I proceeded to eat her out until she came all over my face. She then pushed me back, and began playing with my balls again, but eventually started kissing them and sucking on them. That was the first time I ever had someone suck on my balls, and it was a weird sensation at first, but soon I was seconds from coming. I told her I was close, and she stopped and we started making out again. Soon we were both grinding against each other, and I pushed her back on the bed, aligned my cock with her pussy and slid all the way in. She let out a loud moan, and begged me to go fast. I thrusted back and forth as fast as I could, knowing I wouldn’t last long after the foreplay we had. She quickly began to moan and cry out louder and faster, yelling she was close. I told her I was close and she told me to cum inside her. I pumped a giant load out, which pusher her over the edge and I felt her wetness constrict multiple times.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we lay there laughing, I asked her if she had that planned, she said no, but that it was better then she had thought. She also said she had broken up with her boyfriend that morning, because she wanted to see other people. We stayed friends and had a few more hookups. She only would date guys from where she lived which was 4 hours from our school.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finding out that even though we were both good friends, we could hook up and still continue to be friends.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think sex is a very natural thing, and honestly I wish I had more casual sex encounters before getting married.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea, one for people to share stories, but also to spread the awareness to other people that it can be a positive thing.
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