by Jinx

Gender: Female
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Black
Current location: USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met “Stan” on a app called plenty of fish. We talked for a week or so through messaging before actually meeting in person. He’s tallish with brown hair and blue? Eyes he was pretty fit and was 2 years older than me. I thought he was ok looking from his pictures but he was a lot cuter in person.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were messaging back and forth one day and he asked if i wanted to cone over to his place and we could watch a movie. Of course i knew what that meant but by then i was really curious and also i really just wanted to have sex with him. So i agreed and he picked me up once i was ready as he only lived a few minutes away which was convenient. He had a really nice mustang and would drive really fast it was fun i could tell he was showing off. He lived with a roomate in his own home but they werent there when we first got there. We watched some denzel movie but i really wasnt paying attention and not far into it he kissed me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out on the little reclining sofa then i said i wasnt into the movie anymore (never was to begin with) and we went to his room in the back. He couldnt find his condoms so we used the 2 of mine id brought. He turned off the light and we got in his bed and started making out heavily, lots of humping and grinding through the clothes then we took our clothes off and he got on top and started to finger me which i really didnt like mainly because he was really rough about it and i dont particularly like being fingered. I let it go though. Then he put on a condom and put it in. It hurt since it had been awhile but after the initial entry it started to feel good. Then we switched to me on top and was like that for about 10 minutes. At one point he commented on how wet i was (which we later found out had nothing to do with ky arousal). He stopped halfway and changed into a different condom and switched back to missionary but he couldnt get hard again. He said he’d already came and had tthought he would get hard quicker. Even though he left to smoke and give it some tine for round 2 we realized we wouldnt be able to have another go because hed used both of my condoms and couldnt find his. When he turned on the light there were a lot of blood smears on the sheets because apparently his fingering HAD been a little too rough. I wasnt in pain though just kinda embarrassed but he didnt seem to mind.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didnt, he had 1

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms but im also on birth control and we both said we were clean

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He was cute and I just really wanted to have sex

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? His roommate had returned by then so he left me to get dressed then i went out and made small talk with his roommate then we left. Once we got back to my place we talked for about 20 minutes in the car then said goodbye. We havent talked since.   We both only wanted sex and friendship nothing more. I wouldnt mind a repeat but he hasnt gotten in touch. I still think hes cute and a great conversationalist.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend, who loved it and my siblings who had mixed feelings

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not the hookup just the fact that this might end as a 1 night stand

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing was the adventure of it as it was my first casual sex experience, the worst was the blood. Now that ive experienced it im a lot more open to it

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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