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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Scotland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 19
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 8

Porn Star Moves

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? So I’ve seen Ron again… I do so adore that man, thank goodness I don’t see him more often. He’s a little out of shape in the looks this time (a bit more going on around the middle), but me too! I think he just carries it there as he’s clearly pretty fit and has good stamina. This time I particularly noticed how utterly unhairy he is, very smooth chest which I quite liked.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As usual we were messaging, after a quiet spell we struck up a conversation and I asked him about meeting. He said he could do Sunday night and I booked a hotel. He said he’d fuck my brains out.

I got to the hotel but he said he had to work late… No matter, I got a drink and put on some makeup and got nice and ready in the bed. Then realised he couldn’t get in the place without the key so had to hurriedly get dressed when he arrived.

He was desperate for some wine which is usually what I have not him but I had some anyway and then he asked if I wanted to get some food! This isn’t how this normally goes! He was clearly hungry so I thought fine… He wasn’t sure what to have first though, food or me, so I started kissing him and he threw me on the bed and started rubbing my pussy. I told him to be careful as if I squirted with my jeans on I’d be screwed as I had no other trousers, so he said better get food then.

Went for food, stuffed it down, then he clearly wanted to waste no time getting back to the room.

While we were eating he talked about the messages I like to send him, how he can be in a meeting or at lunch and he checks his phone and oh look, there’s something pornographic! Most of the time he doesn’t reply – but now I know I’m getting the desired effect so that’s cool. I totally get off on thinking about him looking at my dirty pics.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was taking off my jewellery when he came up behind me and started rubbing my breasts. I turned round and kissed him before stripping to my underwear and straddling him. We made out a bit more before he took off my bra and I started rubbing his cock through his pants. He took those off and I sucked his dick before he moved round, went down on me and fingered me til I squirted, as he always does. I really tried to keep pushing as I’ve never really squirted far, but it just increased the volume rather than the distance.

He stuck on some porn (at one point he said “to keep him hard” – really? I’d like to think k was doing that ok myself?!) and grabbed a condom and we fucked. All the usual, me on top with him grabbing at my nipples, him on top, doggy. It was good but not as good as previous times. I was enjoying it for sure, but there was something missing, the spark wasn’t quite as hot as before. He kept telling me to slow down, when we were fucking or I was blowing him. Maybe I was too anxious.

I kept trying to rub my clit but that wasn’t working too great either (the hood swells too much) so I just enjoyed him fucking me until he came. He then turned me over and said time to sort you out, and proceeded to finger me again until we had two big wet patches on the duvet! It’s really great how he so enjoys making me cum too.

We then watched TV for a bit, he went and got more drinks and had a smoke and since I’d wanted to have a clitoral orgasm I rubbed myself until I came again.

More porn, we discussed how could they do it for a living and not get really sore. Then we started touching each other until he got hard and then told me to get up reverse cowgirl. I had to basically copy the porn girl! It did feel much better straddling him that way and he helped me squat over him and bounce around, I know he’s an arse man and he was getting a good view. He then laid me back on top of him, grabbed my tits and thrust up into me, another new move that I liked and that the girl on the TV seemed also to like!

I’m clearly not as fit as him as I couldn’t sustain it for too long so we moved around and after a while he’s jabbing at my ass. He was frustrated I didn’t bring any toys, I had brought lube but he didn’t see the need for that! He’d been inserting a finger on and off the whole time, but his cock kept hitting a sore patch and it wasn’t going great.

He laid me on my front, told me to relax and spat on me (despite being really wet he kept spitting on my asshole, pussy and his cock all through sex which I really liked) then eased his cock in, I got it past the sore patch and he suddenly got quite vocal. He clearly loves anal as he loves ass, so I let him go as long as I could but it was a bit much shoved into the bed, unable to touch myself. If I’d had a vibrator I could’ve also used that would’ve been good, but I didn’t so I had to push him off after a while.

No bother, he just washed himself off and got hard again and off we went. I got on top and he did his thing of pulling me to his chest and not letting me up, it’s so sexy that he wants to feel me pressed against him. After a while he jumped off the bed and sat in the chair and got me to ride him on that. His cock was rubbing in all the right places and I could slam hard down on him. This was awesome. Again though my legs let me down – he turned me facing the bed and fucked me like that before pushing me on and more doggy and ass slapping.

Finally I turned round into missionary, stuck a pillow under me and a leg in the air and he fucked me as hard as he could before having a huge orgasm. He kept thrusting for more than normal. He was clearly a bit overwhelmed when he got up and said he’d shot an enormous load. He then checked he had made me cum tonight (duh I didn’t piss the bed!) and he was amused that I’d felt the need to wank too!

We were both knackered so when he went for another smoke I nearly dozed off. I’d just turned off the TV when he returned and asked if I wanted another drink – I was done, he said I could sleep but I thought I’d wake up a bit now he was back. We chatted and then he said he didn’t think he could go again but a blowjob would be good. No bother, I got to work and after a while he was kissing and fingering me too. Clearly it got too good as he grabbed another condom and wanted to put me straight into doggy. He clearly knows what I like now, and I totally get off on him staring at my ass.

I decided to stay on the bed and we fucked spoons for a while, him occasionally rubbing me too and I really did have a sore clit by now. We had slowed right down and I was really enjoying it now, feeling him moving around inside me and hitting all the right places. I let him turn me and then he just went as hard as he could. I was desperate to squirt like this, I kept pushing and whilst nothing came out I could feel my pussy pulsing a bit, I clearly was cumming but not in a way I ever had before. I don’t know if he could feel it or if it was just my screaming but he slowed right down straight away every time it happened, we were both loving it. He was spreading my ass cheeks and so I helped him, figuring he’d like to see me doing that. After a while we were just too hot and sweaty and we gave up. He was still pretty impressed we went four times again.

So time to sleep – his snoring was worse than I’ve ever heard. Thankfully he had to get up first and I had time for a nap after he’d gone. He kissed me goodbye and was gone.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I messaged him to show my appreciation. My clit is ruined so no wanking off to the memories this time! As last time, I feel quite relaxed about it all, don’t feel too desperate to see him again immediately. I was thinking during sex when it wasn’t quite as good as last time that maybe I’m getting over him, maybe I’m over the hump that we all get when sex does become a bit more normal (we haven’t had sex very often but it has been 2 years now) but then again it was still great, he still was so into me and I felt so desirable. He’s a great ego boost!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one hears about what Ron and I get up to. He said he should’ve been at a snooker tournament but came to fuck me instead so I don’t know if his mates running that know why he blew them off!

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The porn star moves, trying new things. His dirty talk, spitting on his cock as it slid inside me. The fact he had a huuuuge orgasm inside me. I think he’ll be coming back for more at some point!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? His constant staring at the screen. Hello, I’m here too… We’ve had great sex in the past with no porn on though, and I can’t say I wasn’t watching it too, but there’s little you can see when your head is buried in the duvet for roughly half the time! I’m pretty sure he was enjoying looking at my ass too though!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? If anything I’d like more normal sex next time I see Ron. I think I need to relax and enjoy it more rather than try to emulate the porn stars. I think we’ll go for a room with just the basic channels next time and make all our own entertainment.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love my husband. I love fucking my husband. I love fucking Ron and if this could be out in the open, I think I’d see him a lot more and I’d have the friendship I want with him. I hate any element of lying and I was as truthful as I could be about going and seeing him. We use condoms, we’re careful. If everyone just gave in to their urges but stayed truthful to their main relationship maybe things would be a bit different.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Read it every day. I’ve been thinking of putting some much older experiences with other people on here, but I like to keep it as my Ron diary.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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