Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Optometric assistant
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None.
Post Breakup Bliss
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4.5 years
How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand 3 some
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Both were shorter & muscular (which I seem to find attractive), older, carefree guys I had known for a few years through my recent ex. I knew them fairly well and never really thought of them sexually before the hookup.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started at a nightclub. I had decided to go out for the first time after my ex and I broke up after he cheated, we had been together for 7 years and I had never strayed. I spent a lot of time getting ready and was feeling pretty good about myself for once. I wore a super short skirt and barely there shirt because I was definitely considering a one night stand just for fun. I ran into the two of them and we danced the whole night, I was grinding on them and could feel them getting excited which was hot, I hadn’t felt another man get excited by me in a number of years. Eventually they sandwiched me between the two of them and I could tell the night wasn’t about to end when the club closed. They asked if I’d like to come hang out a while after the bar at one of their places and I agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During the hookup was a blur. It started on the couch. I was giving one of them a blow job and then the other entered me from behind. I remember I really wanted double penetration but they weren’t into it which was okay. We moved to the bedroom where they took turns fucking me. They showered me in compliments the whole time. They were very attentive lovers. We fell asleep together and when we woke in the morning we had sex in the shower and then I went home.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None were taken or discussed. I got tested afterwards and everything was fine but I trusted the two of them well enough.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to have fun after a nasty breakup. I’d been with my boyfriend for 7 years and he cheated with an underage girl. I felt undesirable and miserable for a while after. I guess I also felt I missed out on a lot of sexual experience.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had a few drinks at the bar. Then back at his place we did some blow. I felt sober though, cocaine has never affected me.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went home. We all talked afterwards as though nothing happened but I think that’s because they both had prospective girlfriends shortly after. I don’t think we ever felt awkward.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My current boyfriend. He was understanding but not supportive of that decision.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual and wanted for all involved
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. It was a great experience all in all and I really enjoyed it.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing was the fun. It got me over a lot of issues I’d been dealing with. I don’t know that there was a worst part
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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