by Swish

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: London
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Adventurous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 16
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Post Dinner Orgasms

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling chance to progress

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Cute, messy hair with a few cheeky piercings. Young looking yet good looking. Met on a dating app which we both joined expecting nothing from. Met up and went on a First Date, and had a long 8 hours together drinking and sharing stories, the end of the night came, and we didn’t kiss. We simply hugged in which he pulled me in close, and then I left. The first time we met, I thought he was a friendly, nice guy who seemed to make an effort.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our second ‘date’ he invited me round for dinner, and he had just moved into a new flat. He worked as a chef, so cooked me a meal, which was delicious. We sat and drank wine and shared more stories, which led to us going to watch ‘a film’ in his room. At this point, we still hadn’t kissed, I went to the toilet to ‘freshen up’ and came back to the corner of the duvet pulled back although to insinuate for me to get in- however he was smoking a cigarette, I went over and instinctively got in the bed. 
We sat and watched 3 films, and he had his arm round me, every time he moved his fingers and they brushed against my skin my thighs tensed and I knew I wanted him. 
I laid my head on his chest, and we chatted, I acted like I couldn’t hear him and lifted my chin, to which he responded in kissing me. His lips were incredibly soft and the kiss sent a shiver down my spine. He caressed my face as we kissed more.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The kissing turned to my leg wrapped around him and I could feel his hard-on pressed against my clit. He was biting my lip and slightly pulling and tugging at my hair and clothes, I was insanely turned on. He didn’t rush things and timed it perfectly, taking one item off at a time and paying attention to the areas he was removing clothing. He sucked and nibbled on my nipples, and I could have finished from that alone my whole skin was on edge. Eventually, I was on top of him bouncing up and down, he kept kissing me which was delicious, and for a while our lips just hovered and we could feel each others breath which turned me on even more. We changed positions a variety of times. Me on top, him on top, legs on shoulders, doggy, sat up, on the edge of the bed, over the bed, my legs closed with him on top. I never cum from sex alone, but he was paying so much attention to my clit I came, twice. He came into a condom and we collapsed exhausted but satisfied. We laid naked together and stroked each others sensitive skin, continuously kissing, and pecking each other on the lips, shoulders, nose and forehead. It was extremely sexual and intense and my skin felt on fire. We agreed that it was the best sex either of us have ever had, and we joked about this as we were smoking a cigarette, as my legs and whole body were shaking, and the orgasm was so intense my hearing went strange. 

We slept together in the morning again, twice, and I went back last night and we continued to have the most amazing sex I’ve had. He came in my mouth twice, and at one point I gave him a hand job and licked all the cum off his stomach. He made me squirt too, twice, with his fingers.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms the first 3 times, relying on my pill the last two, though he didn’t finish inside me. We briefly jokingly discussed STI’s but came to the conclusion we are both clean.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Firstly, I just wanted a date and to spend time with someone and have a fun relaxed time. I had no intentions of sleeping with him and booked a train ticket home, so it came completely by surprise.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Wine and beers the first night, although we weren’t drunk. No drugs.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great about it, although slightly scared as to whether it would ruin the magic and that he wouldn’t pursue it further. This wasn’t the case and isn’t at the moment. The sexual chemistry was like nothing I have ever experienced, and I feel like I need to pursue this otherwise I would be an idiot. I feel comfortable around him, and truly believe that’s what allowed me to cum with what was basically, a stranger to me.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I spoke to a few friends, not going into detail, just telling them how good my experience was. One was jealous, others just laughed. He lives with two men, so I surmise they have discussed it too.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Completely consensual, and wanted on both parts.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No matter what happens from here on, I doubt I could ever regret the hook up. It showed me I can be sexual and turned on after 2 years of severely average and frankly boring sex.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the way the sex felt, and the fact I know it wasn’t just sex. It didn’t feel although we had sex and I was gonna leave and we might meet up every so often, it felt like we knew how good it was and we were addicted to each other. Having that mutual feeling gave me confidence I have lost. The worst is that I’m seriously developing feelings for this guy, and feelings is giving yourself the ability to be hurt. It has changed the way I feel as I know there are good lovers out there, and sometimes you just have a connection with someone.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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