Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? A week ago
How would you best classify this hookup? From friends to FWBs [Friends With Benefits]
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My friend was pretty hot in my opinion. Taller than me (I’m 5’4″). 6-pack abs. Strawberry blonde/light brown hair. Beautiful blue eyes. We knew each other kind of well. We met through a mutual friend. Before I kind of wanted to hook up but I wasn’t going to push for it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Prom. Need I say much more? We started off just dancing. Then we got closer. And by the end of prom we were making out. When I saw that he was thinking the same thing, I figured it was ok to keep making moves with him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After prom was over we started making out in my car. That escalated to touching and I gave him a blow job. We climbed to the back seat and actually had sex. I must say it was amazing. Complicated with a prom dress inhibiting your movement, but amazing to say the least. We made out after it was over. And said we needed to hang out again sometime. Then we went our separate ways.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t discuss anything. I’m on birth control and he asked me before we started having sex.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I guess just dancing so close and having that physical touch sensation led to it.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I feel good. Definitely a different and awesome experience. I still feel that we are friends. Will we do it again? Probably.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friend. She thought it was awesome that we had a great time.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes. And yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the in this moment sensation. The worst was probably location and situation. But it hasn’t changed my view on anything.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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