by Dancer Girl
Race/ethnicity: White mixed
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Sexual orientation: Hetero
Number of prior hookup stories posted here? 0
How would you best classify this hookup: One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). How well did you know them? How did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup?
I did not know him at all, met him at a bar in LES called Pianos. Thought he was attractive mostly because he could dance so well.
How did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Where did it take place? Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much?
I was out dancing with friends who had significant others to dance with. They all left our spot to get a drink and two seconds later plops down the guy, asking me to dance. We must have danced for maybe 45 min to an hour, which led to a drink, then he asked if I would like to get out of there and head to his place. I was fairly drunk by then so I obliged.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? What were your intentions for the future with this person? Were you aware this was a hookup? Was this a consensual/wanted experience?
I wanted it, yes. It had been a couple of years since I had been with anyone outside my normal fuck buddy/long term on and off man. I needed the intimacy and loved his attention (and dancing skills!) no future intentions, just sex and leave kindly.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place? What (if any) precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? How did you feel during the hookup? How much did you enjoy it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner have an orgasm? How did you feel and behave toward your partner during the hookup? What kinds of things did you discuss with the partner during the hookup? How did the hookup end?
We made out in the cab leading to his place, immediately stripped down and started kissing, licking. I gave him a short blowjob before heading straight to sex. Nothing crazy kinky, we moved effortlessly in and out of several positions. I remember enjoying myself and it feeling really good, but I didn’t orgasm. He did. We used condoms for both rounds of sex. After the second round I got nauseous and had to excuse myself to the bathroom, throw up from the alcohol then got dressed to go home because I was embarrassed from getting sick. I never got his number and haven’t ran across him again.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel? What happened (if anything) with the person? To whom did you talk about it? How did they react? How do you feel about this person now? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? Do you regret this hookup? If so, why?
I was extremely hungover the next day, so obviously I felt terrible. However, since I normally don’t do one night stands and especially after only knowing the guy for about an hour before we had sex, I felt kind of bad about letting myself go like that. I don’t know him or his STD history so naturally I got checked. Nothing was caught luckily. I did however have a good time with him so I don’t regret it. I don’t think I would have done it if I weren’t so inebriated.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general?
Best thing was I trusted him and he was sweet and good in bed. Worst thing was I don’t know anything except his name, so it could have turned out worse if I had caught something. I don’t really enjoy casual sex too much because I love the emotional connection with having sex with someone you care about deeply. It’s infinitely better with a person you trust and love. However, I learned that sometimes you just need to fuck and that’s exactly what that was and nothing more.
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