What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Medical
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open to ideas
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1


How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Okay, this was a double whammy. The neighbor across the hall from me was this incredibly tall black woman. Incredibly thin, but so sexy with close cropped hair and made it a point to say she always wanted me. No weaves, fake nails or any of that. The other woman was down and to the right around the corner from my room. Same building, but on the opposite side pretty much. She was a shorter curvy white girl that looked like the ultimate nerd, but she loved sucking my cock no matter where it had been. She even said I need to always stop at her place to get cleaned off if I just fucked some one else so she can taste it.

I knew them both for less than a year we were all army. I kept a room in the barracks, but I was rarely there since I had a girlfriend in the city over. She was okay with me fucking other women as long as she knew them and she gave me the go ahead. The white girl had been sucking my dick every chance she got since she got to the unit. She said there was something about me that made her mouth water. The black girl was always flirting, but never backed it up when I flirted back. My girlfriend even told her one time to come home with us so we could break her down. She didn’t take us up.

While at work they were soldiers like me so I never dropped my professional demeanor. But as soon we were released for the day I would play. The black girl Lets call her Letti and the White girl Cassi. Cassi was a cool chick because she wanted to let the freak out, but was still shy. Letti was all talk so I never gave her much attention after the first few times she couldn’t back up her talk.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hook up was in my room with Letti and then in Cassi’s room with her. Letti said she needed some vodka so she came over to my room to get a bottle. There was no planning on my part. Letti instigated it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So Letti came over to get some vodka from me. She wanted to got to the liquor store, but for some reason they had closed early that day. I invited her in while I got her a bottle. When I turned around she was right next to me and I looked up at her. I’m only 5’7″ she was almost 6′, and something told me it was on. We started kissing I put the bottle down on my desk and we moved to my bed. I took off her PT uniform and I got out of my civilian clothes as we climbed up on the bed kissing and fondling each other. I started to play with her pussy and suck on her nipples. she was so thing, but her nipples were perfect. I eventually moved down to eat her pussy and stayed down until she had cum multiple times. It was throwing me off because she kept calling me by my last name.

When she thought she couldn’t take anymore I got up and positioned myself right at her pussy with my bare cock. I know I shouldn’t have fucked her without a condom, but at the time I wasn’t even thinking about that. I was thinking I’m going to fuck her into next week and then Cassi is going to clean up the mess with her mouth. I lifted her legs high and pounded into her not even really caring about giving her pleasure. I wanted to break her. She came anyway as I slid deep into her and filled her with cum. It was so much it poured out of her when I pulled out. The look in her eyes told me she wasn’t expecting a fuck like that from the short guy.

I got dressed again as she lay there trying to recover. She finally did and get dressed. My bed was a mess, but I didn’t care at the time. I handed her the bottle of vodka and she said, no she was just using that as an excuse to come into my room. She left all spaghetti legged to her room.

I left my room licked the door behind me and headed straight for Cassi’s room, knocked on her door. She opened it in less than 5 seconds and pulled me into her room. She knew why I was there. She unbuckled my belt, undid the button and pulled the zipper down. She grabbed my cock with both hands. I was already hard for her mouth. I shuffled over to sit on the edge of her bed and she never once let my cock go from her hands and mouth as she Sucked the head. She sucked me off like it gave her life. To this day she’s the best blowjob I have ever had. She asked me to describe how I fucked Letti while her head bounced up and down and she cupped my balls and played with my asshole.

I described it to her between gasps and little whimpers, i’m not going to lie and say i was all stoic when she went down on me. There was no keeping my cool with her doing that. Finally i could feel the build up and I started to cum so much. and she swallowed every drop without hesitation. she continued to suck me even though I was so sensitive before she got up and thanked me.

While she got dressed I used her phone to call my girlfriend and tell her what happened. I could tell she was getting horny. I told her I could bring Cassi with me and she said yes. So Cassi and I took the train to my girlfirend’s house and we played all night and again in the morning together.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup it still remained the same other than Letti being more forward with coming over and initiating the sex. Cassi still sucked my off as much as she could. She she would play with my girlfriend and I we never fucked, but my girlfriend and her would play together and Cassi would eat my cum out of my girlfriends pussy or lick it off her tits and face.

No changes the next day. No expectations from Letti or Cassi. They are both married with kids now. We remain friendly on facebook, but I’m pretty sure their husbands and kids have no idea what kind of fun they were.

I don’t feel anything other than fondness for them. They were acquaintances with benefits than and are just acquaintances now.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend Sara, who was friends with both women, found out and at first she was upset that I could be such a slut. However, 3 weeks afterwards she was also a fuck buddy. We are still friends and when we are in the same area for more than a few days we get together and play.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I came so hard both times and there were no hard feelings from either woman because there was honesty involved.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It could have been more often. It was only happening like this Letti then Cassi about once every couple of weeks, when honestly it could have been about every three days.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? no.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It has been a nice balance in my life since I’m so serious and not the most socially outgoing person. Casual sex is like the best I am in a social situation.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? not a bad idea

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