What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Fairborn
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Military
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? None
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Prelude to a Foursome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 13 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Well my wife, Danielle is white had at the time some large breasts due to the fact she had given birth a few months prior and our friend Tonya who had some nice breasts as well and a nice ass on her. Her husband, Charles is Mexican. Charles was an average guy, nothing really special about him. We all met in Biloxi, Mississippi. Danielle, Tonya and I all worked together in the same office while Charles worked elsewhere on base. Initially I didn’t care for Tonya as we butted heads often as I thought she was pretentious and found her to be annoying though Danielle got along just fine with her. Charles and I was cool once we got to know him. There was always this competition with them towards us even though Danielle and I didn’t understand why. Eventually we got close and hung out often.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So this story has a few parts to it and initially started as a plan for a foursome. However, before we get to the foursome, let’s chat about the lead up to it. It started as a conversation between Charles and me about how attractive both our wives are after a few drinks and brought it up several more times on a few different occasions. We both decided to ask our wives what they thought of each other and to gauge their interest in hooking up. Both Danielle and Tonya agreed that they were mutually attracted to each other and there was a possibility of hooking up if the opportunity presented itself. Keep in mind Danielle was pregnant at the time too so her hormones were raging. Over a couple of months, we’d all joke about going to Ocean City MD and act out our fantasies but didn’t act on it as Danielle was near term. It wasn’t until several months after Danielle delivered when the first step towards our hookup occurred. It all started in the bathroom in my apartment with a little encouragement from me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? While Danielle was visiting me (she was stationed at a different base), she went on a girls night out with Tonya. While they were out I began to text Danielle to see if they were ok and to see if they attempted anything. Danielle responded no but she was wanting to kiss Tonya. When they got back, Danielle was a bit intoxicated and went to the use the bathroom and I told Tonya that Danielle had hoped she would kiss her and she wanted to have sex with her. We shared a kiss and she went to the bathroom to join Danielle. I went to go check on our kid and as I was passing by the bathroom I saw my wife and Tonya locked in an embrace. Their mouth was locked together and their hands were squeezing each other’s breasts and groping each other’s bodies. As their lips parted, they took turns sucking on each other’s tongue and continued to grope each other’s breast and ass. I took a quick peek on our kid and went and join them in the bathroom. I got behind Tonya and started to fondle her breasts and suck on her neck then I started to rub her pussy through her pants as they were still kissing each other. Tonya started to moan as I continued to run her pussy while Danielle nibbled on her neck. Danielle then leaned towards me and we shared a kiss then we started sucking on Tonya’s ears and neck. Danielle then resumed kissing her while I rubbed my raging hard on against her ass and rubbed her pussy. I moved around and started kissing her neck and cheek and finally got my tongue in her mouth. She turned my head towards my wife and we started kissing as well. Not wanting to be left out, we all started swapping tongues in a three way kiss. I was able to get one of Tonya’s breast out and started teasing her nipple as she rubbed my wife’s pussy. We did that for about 10 mins before realizing that another friend was in the car outside passed out. We ended it there and Tonya went home.

My wife and I decided to finish each other off and went to the bedroom to do just that. We started talking about how hot that was and would like to go further. Danielle took my cock in her mouth and started sucking on it hungrily. She would suck on my cock then stick her tongue in my mouth and have me suck the taste off of it. She asked if I’d like to have Tonya suck my cock and of course I said “fuck yes”. I told her I wanted to bury my face in her pussy and ass while Tonya sucked me off. I told her I’d love to see her and Tonya eating each other’s pussy. She started stroking my cock as she raised up and stuck her tongue out so I can taste my cock. She pulled me closer and whispered that she wanted Charle’s cock to fill her pussy with his hot cum and would like for me to clean her pussy with my tongue. She went back down to my cock and sucked some more. I wanted her pussy so bad we ended up in 69 and I attacked her wet pussy with my tongue. Danielle leaned back and smothered my face and started riding my tongue and face leaving it extremely wet with her juices. She finally let up and as soon as she did, I grabbed her ass cheeks and spread it as far as I could and drove my tongue into her asshole. After we did that for a little bit, she got on my cock and started riding. We swapped to missionary then doggy style all the while she’s telling me she wants be fucked like a whore. As I’m smashing her pussy from the back, I slid my thumb into her ass and that brought her over the edge and she came. I followed not long after as blew my cum on her breasts. We cleaned up and went to bed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Next morning, Danielle and I talked more about getting with Tonya and Charles though we didn’t have a plan and decided that if it happens it happens, if not, oh well. Charles messaged me about how the Ocean City fun almost happened last night though I pretended I didn’t know and act surprised. A week later, the four us went out but that story is to be continued. Danielle and I still happily married and Charles ended up divorcing a several years after our final encounter.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just a couple of girls hi I was trying to fuck that knew all four of us. They were intrigued at the idea of joining Danielle and I in a threesome.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Exploring a fantasy which eventually was fulfilled.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, I love causual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? There’s more to this story which leads into the foursome.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’d like it to happen more often but with four kids in the house and not really trusting anyone to watch can be a downer. Plus we haven’t found those type of friends where we currently live though we haven’t actively searched.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s awesome. I was able to tell a part of our story to the world.

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