by Closet freak
Race/ethnicity: African – American
Current location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Full-time student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Highly sexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Too many to keep track
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two months ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends-with-benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was approached by the husband of a couple that I knew through the PTA (Parent/Teacher Association). All of us are/were PTA presidents of different schools in the area. The husband (who I will call “T”) approached me casually on Facebook, asking how I was, my family, and my relationship as T had met my boyfriend before. I responded via private message that I was no longer in the relationship. T then proceeded to tell me about his “open” relationship with his wife and that he chooses me to be “open” with after six years of not being with another woman. I was kind of shocked, but had a feeling that their relationship might be open because of a post he’d written on Facebook some time ago. Interestingly enough, just a couple of weeks before, I expressed to a friend of mine that my ideal relationship involved having a man and a woman. So, I was not too surprised that the opportunity presented itself.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The evening of our Facebook conversation and brief telephone conversation I agreed to meet at their home. I was surprised to discover how sexually “open” they were. T mentioned that he liked porn and of course, so do I. So, when I arrived to their home, T had already had some porn playing on the TV. He also mentioned that he and his wife, “M,” also like to film themselves having sex. So, he commenced to showing me a video of the two of them. I also learned that he like to watch M having sex with other men, so needless to say, we watched a video of her with T and another man. I was really beginning to get turned on watching M have sex with the two men and kept thinking how I wish it were me the whole time I watched.
After a couple of hours of talking and watching sex, things finally begin moving towards the three of us having sex.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Now, I’m not physically attracted to M. Although I am attracted to women, M is not really my type. I like very feminine women and she is not that feminine. Nor, is she that pretty. However, I am attracted to her sexually. She has a very nice ass.
M got naked, laid down on the bed, and spread her legs wide open. T got between her legs and started to lick her pussy. I was planning on just watching, but I love eating pussy and was extremely turned on. M is waxed, so her pussy was absolutely beautiful and irresistible. Inevitably, I had to get a closer look and the next thing I know my mouth is on her pussy and I was in absolute heaven.
T got behind me, removed my pants and started eating my pussy from behind. I was still licking and sucking on M. Next thing I know he enters me. He felt so good. He fucked me so good while I was still eating M. We were in that position for quite some time, which happens to be my favorite position. I’m not sure how many other positions we were in that night, but it was definitely one of the best threesome experiences I have had.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I definitely had an orgasm, multiple ones and they did, too.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We did not use any condoms. I am now unable to get pregnant because of sterilization. So, that is no longer a concern. I have had two STI’s in my life. The first when I was 16, chlamydia. The second time, when I was 27, trichomoniasis, which I got from my now ex husband.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I really wanted to have a man and a woman. So, when the opportunity presented itself I went for it.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? T and M drank. I don’t drink. There was also marijuana involved which I did partake.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt really good after the experience. We all hooked up again a few times after that. I also invited one of my other “friends with benefits” to join (a male). That experience was okay, but my male friend was also not attracted to M, so it was not as fun as it could have been.
I really like T and M, but I don’t necessarily want to be in a “relationship” with them aside from sex and it started to get a little to “close” for me. Right now, I just don’t want any obligations or commitments to anyone. I want to be free to come and go. Also, because they are a “married” couple, I feel like a third wheel. I would much rather find a single man and single woman to hook up with.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have a few male friends that I hook up with occasionally, so I told them about it. They were “wowed” by it and of course would love to engage in the activity. I have two female friends that I told, but they already know how I am sexually which is very open and free. So, they were not surprised by the experience.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? This was very consensual by all parties involved.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, I do not regret the hookup.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hookup was the self-realization it gave me. I realized how sexually repressed I was in my previous relationship and that I compromised a lot. I also realized that my preferred relationship is an open one and this experience definitely helped me to realize that.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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