What’s your gender? Man
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Tampa, Florida
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Zero

Puerto Rican Who Slayed My Life

How long ago did this hookup happen? three and a half years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were only three inches taller than me (I was 5’6″ and he was 5’9″). He was tan and just an average joe. I did not know them very well, but after the sexual encounter, he basically spilled to me his whole life story. It was the first and only time we hooked up. I met him on a gay hooking up app call Jack’d. Before the hookup, I felt he was a sweet guy and I was interested in his 8 inches downstairs.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began at his apartment. We French kissed and one thing led to another. No planning was involved. He instigated.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During the hookup, we gave each other oral and fucked. When fucking, I bottomed and he put me in all sorts of different positions from missionary to laying me on my stomach to riding him to fucking me sideways. They were very romantic and gentle, but most of all, passionate. They seemed way more experienced than me and were great at what they did. It ended with him cumming on my ass cheeks.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, he drove me home as I was not driving at the time. The next day, I told all of my close friends about it and it was honestly one of the best hookups I had ever had. I had no expectations then and I don’t have any now. We lost contact afterwards, but I feel like they truly deserved my body since they knew how to treat it right — a rarity in most hookups these days.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends. They were enthralled and wanted all the details.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Riding him while we made out and all the different positions he put me in.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The end when he yapped away about his entire life.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It’s taught me that casual sex is not for everyone, but it is for me. I feel that life is too short and, so, you should be willing to try new things because you never know the amount of pleasure it’ll elicit in you. Also, people need to embrace their desires instead of suppressing them, so that they can feel satisfied. In other words, avoid being sexually frustrated because it’s unnecessary and not worth it. After this hookup, I felt more confident to hookup with someone again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I “came” on his bed sheets while he fucked me on my stomach.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex can be enjoyable if one is both psychologically and physically prepared. It is not a rampant occurrence in my life, but I’m open to it most of the time. Sex is a topic that’s normally shunned, but contemporary society needs to inform themselves on the copious benefits as well as not be afraid to have a little fun. If people can be more open about talking about sex, then less rape and pregnancies will occur. Also, people will probably feel more confident expressing their sexual desires when it comes down to having sex. Sex is not taboo, so let’s all learn to accept it for what it is.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s informative, interesting, and will open people’s minds to try new things.

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