Race/ethnicity: Jewish (Almost white)
Current location: Philadelphia
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Relationship status: Single now, at the time was dating someone
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you?: Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? I like using pansexual because i like the whole gender spectrum
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
Punk Block Party Alleyway Ass Eating
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Sloppy cheating
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s built like a dad, mostly shaved head, very skinhead looking tattoos, flamboyant punk boy clothes. I’d known him for a few years and we always talked about books and comics and stuff at shows. Semi-flirty friends basically. I’ve had a vague crush on him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were sitting on a stoop at this block party at the end of a week long thing that happens in Philadelphia where there are a lot of punk shows. I forget what we were talking about but it was probably Peter Bagge (wrote the “hate” comics). He put his arm around me. I said, “I feel like I’m about to disappoint you because i have a boyfriend.” He was like, “Ok, is your boyfriend here?”
Basically I’m really bad in monogamous relationships but always allow myself to get talked into them We ended up going in this alleyway behind the block party and making out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were both like very drunk and didn’t have condoms so we didn’t have vaginal sex. We made out a lot and exchanged oral sex. I had to pee (because I’d been drinking) and he licked up all the piss off my pussy. I ate his asshole a lot and he ate mine. He fucked my face until he came.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, many times.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He didn’t put his cock in me except my mouth
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I like him and always suspected he was a freak because until a couple years ago he only dated guys. I was fighting with my boyfriend and he was working out of town all summer. I wanted to be with him.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Very much alcohol, also pot.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Not too long after the hookup I broke up with my boyfriend and he broke up with his girlfriend. We’ve been having really kinky sex with each other since, which is really satisfying and cool, neither one of us has any monogamous expectations from each other but am very down to keep hanging out. I feel pretty great about him.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, i feel unfortunate about having cheated on my ex but I think was a necessary wake up call for me regarding setting standards for myself in my relationships that are difficult for me to keep.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The single best moment was when I pissed and he said “Get back over here and let me lick the piss off you.” I think it was a tipping point for me. I’m not going to attempt to do monogamous relationships anymore.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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