What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Singapore
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He looked slim, and just looked like an average guy. He was not really built. I met him on grindr and we kept in touch. On the first hookup, I was a little disappointed because he was shorter, but where he fell short, he made up for elsewhere.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He was free, and he messaged me, so we met in a shower cubicle. Since we’ve known each other for a while, he begged and convinced me to let him go raw.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I blew him, and he rocked his hips in and out of my mouth. I was really enjoying the energy and the force he used. He proceeded to lick my nipples while fingering me. The highlight was him fucking me in missionary. It was the first time I ever took someone missionary, and it just felt so complete. He just had so much force and stamina as a top, and he just kept pounding away at my ass. We made out, and he just kept pounding and pounding and I was just so into it that it went into a blur. I’ve never felt that good from sex, partly because he knew what I wanted and partly because I know what he wants from our regular fucking.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My ass was sore for the rest of the day. He’s moving away, so we’re planning some new places to go voyeur.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friend, kind of shock
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Just the orgasm, the sheer pounding from missionary felt so good.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Location, I’d prefer somewhere nicer, but he likes voyeur.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? How good anal orgasm can get.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I feel kind of guilty I’m going into this, but the orgasm and sex was too good.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Perhaps less stigma, and a lot more teaching.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good communication.
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