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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Manchester, England
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Serving the public
What’s your current relationship status? Inbetween many
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Insatiable
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Approx 250.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met online. I was looking to date normally (whatever that is). He was looking for FWB; out of long sexless marriage (heard it all before)….. Bit older than me. He had hammered the sun. Slim & tall. Got the gift of the gab. Told me he was a massive giver, wanted a sub…… Eanted to see him naked, see how he kissed. Could he turn me on…….?
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met in a bar. Flirted. Wanted his cock. Sat in his car after a drink & kissed….. Planned to meet at mine. Texted me rules. Can I conquer the control freak? Do exactly as he says and I will be rewarded (he tells me he used to date a sex therapist). I got to have more and see if he is all talk
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Bought ties. I dressed slutty for him. Kissed passionately in the kitchen while making him a cup of tea ( how English!). I had to walk up the stairs so he could see Between my legs. Tied my hands to my bed. Blindfolded me. Hog tied my feet. I am not allowed to talk. Deep kisses me, pinches my nipples hard, touches my clit to see how wet I am. Teases my whole body with his tongue. Even the backs of my legs. The bottom of my feet. That is such a turn on for me. Unsure where he going next. Rubs my clit. He can read when I am just about to come. Backs off. Then slams a couple of fingers into me, speeding up the pace, making me cum, backing off for a second or 2, then same again. Wow I am chasing orgasm after orgasm. Deep and deeper for me. He is panting getting so turned on by my orgasms….. Goes down on me. Teases and teases, until I am almost there, then backs off. Starts to finger me & lick my clit super fast, really pushing me hard, then I spirt like a fountain. I have never gushed before. He says he can make me spirt again. He does. Pushes my body harder and harder. We carry on like this for over 2 hours. OMG, how can this guy make me cum so much?? He reads my body better than anyone. The bed& us both are so wet. We fuck for a few minutes & it’s so hot at the end. We have to back off as he is close to coming. Then we go for it & cut together. We talk about how multi orgasmic I am and that it’s quite rare. How I can chase 4/5/6 orgasms one after the other. We discuss targets for the next time. He has counted 38 orgasms & gushed twice. He is a target man.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt elated at the time and after (after that amount of orgasms, who wouldn’t).Wanted more. Knew this was sex and nothing else, just pure sex, for the moment.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more desirable, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. She said if I have fun and can handle it, carry on. And he sounds married!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Discovering I am multi orgasmic and can gush
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That this is the most amazing sex ever and can I get this in a normal everyday relationship with a regular boyfriend? Why couldn’t I or a past boyfriend unlock my key years ago!!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No. Always been very up for casual sex. I think like a man. Enjoy sex and pushing boundaries. People that slate casual sex are either jealous or have zilch sex drive
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It’s instinctive for us humans to push boundaries and try new things
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Let’s have more of it. Be careful. Banging is food for the brain
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A turn on. Especially on the school run
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