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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? Indian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Government
What’s your current relationship status? Committed relationship with married man
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10-15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had been interested in women all my life but never acted on it until I got out of a 5 year long relationship with a guy. Met a gorgeous Lucy Liu lookalike Chinese girl, 5 years my senior. Met on pinkcupid.com. Excited to meet a stranger for sex. Initially met for lunch to see if we clicked and shared mutual intentions – both had never been with a woman but were actively seeking an experience.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met again a few days later. She picked me up in her car and we drove to an empty shopping precinct car park around 11pm on a hot summer’s day. Some planning involved cause we were sexting since our initial meeting. Very dirty. We both instigated the hookup.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was more nervous than I so I straight up went in and kissed her passionately. She reached under my skirt and eagerly started fingering me. We stripped and sucked and licked each other’s pussies, tits and asses and scissored for a good 2 to 3 hours. Some kinky stuff like spanking, biting and mild asphyxiation. It was a heavenly experience for us both – women are incredibly soft and intuitive during sex compared to men, I personally found. Only thing is we didn’t realise how important it was to trim our feline nails beforehand! So there was a lot of blood, but we didn’t mind. Though I had to stand in the open car park while she doused me with water! A lot of fun.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt delighted I’d met such an awesome person because we got on really well and did a lot of stuff outside of just fucking constantly. Met her again almost every weekend and sometimes more over about 2 years for backseat sex. Unfortunately I loved to London for work and haven’t seen her for a good few years.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend at the time – tho tragically through the sharing of this story, my friend shared she was in love with me and broke off the friendship due to jealousy. Also told my very recent ex-boyfriend/prospective friend who also didn’t take it well.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Made a really good friend who I could fuck too! And we were both mature enough to have an open relationship without resenting one another.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Reaction from best friend and ex-boyfriend/friend.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, that casual sex can be enjoyable but can hurt people too. Approach with caution.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Just came across it today. Read some stories and decided to parttake.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!