by Shon

Gender: Male
Age: 27
Race/ethnicity: African-American
Location: USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Residential
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Gay/Lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1,000+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Quick Online Turns To Long

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? White male 5’8  was 23 about 150 and 8x5in thick when we met. Online craigslist, never met him before, and was a great hookup.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He replied to my craigslist post.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I gave him oral 4 times and swallowed him, which I never like to do, and I bottomed for him which I was a top. He liked that I did oral I never liked it done to me because I’m uncut and 9in so most guys are pretty rough when sucking.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms when we did anal, but I been very safe and so was he.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Was horny.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kept in touch and played everyday and he somewhat moved in with me. We have been seeing  each other off and on for 7 +years. I’m not out and neither is he one to my closest friends which is three of them. He has a door key to every place I lived, my friends even took him in when we went to miami by car from dallas tx and I had to fly back because he want to stay there lol. He was away for 2 years now back in dallas, he has a newborn in chicago but still comes over.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? 5 friends which was cool because I was monogamous with only him for the first time. Only person I cook for till this day. My motto was find them feel them fuck them and forget them. Not anymore!

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? We’re still friends, not sex and he cooked for me the first time ever.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? First person I was ever faithful to.

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